Disclaimer I know very well someone I am getting to know and someone I like might very well read this post, no it is not you, Frank. However, I would not be who I am if I did not address this issue, so if that causes a rift between the guy and I so be it. I am not going to be dramatic. I am simply going to say I am well aware now of the person you actually are. I am fully aware that the person I thought you were, you are not. I hope you can be honest with whomever you are seeing now and I hope that you never come back trying to get things out of me outside of a friendship. I do not expect that from you and I just want to move on with my life. So, please if you attempt to contact me let it be from a place of friendship and nothing more. Consider this a warning. If you contact me asking me for anything outside of things that friends do we will not speak. I look forward to the future and I hope you can be honest with your new person and not repeat the bad. Lastly, thank you for the lessons learned. Good Luck.