This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Because I usually get questions about the same things (I occasionally update this)
Sexuality: Iβm bisexual. I enjoy both men and women. Being cis or trans doesnβt make a difference to me.
Relationship status: My personal relationships aren't really public business unless they decide to be in content with me. I am a relationship anarchist, and I don't do LDR.
Location: Northern Europe. I'm not looking for hookups. If we connect well then I'm open to meeting the right people.
Position: I'm a top and in power dynamics I'm dominant.
Pet play: When I'm not the handler I'm a hound, I don't need or want an "owner" and I'm not some pet. Don't treat me like one. Feral pup4pup is what I care for.
Photography: I'm trying to practice my skill and fill out my portfolio so anyone who's interested in trying out or enjoys modelling for kink photography are more than welcome to reach out to me (variety is the spice of life, don't feel discouraged for silly things). I'll show you some of my stuff in DMs if you'd like, what I post to reddit is usually only selfshots done with a phone. For my actual photography I shoot with a proper camera and I've been taking pictures for almost 20 years now, but I do not want to be a professional. This is just for fun.
Chats: Iβm very fond of interacting with people on Reddit so itβs always okay to come say hello. However, if you make no effort to actually have a conversation or you get straight into some kind of sexting I'm likely to ignore you. Feel free to ask questions or talk in depth about something but if it's just a sexual compliment it might be better to only leave a comment. I like conversations with substance.
Gender: Short answer I'm male. People souldn't need to have it clarifed any deeper than that but since a lot of my posts gets reported and I keep getting endless messages accusing me of posting where I don't belong or assuming I can't label myself correctly here's a reluctant rundown.
I'm a trans man. I do not like being a trans man. I have dysphoria. I take nudes that make me look cis. I'm pretty good at that, this is deliberate. I don't identify as ftm, I don't take pride in being trans.
Yet I post a lot to subreddits specifically for trans people. I do this because men generally don't have a lot of places to post nudes, trans men even less so and I like posting nudes. I have to cram "trans man" into every title on those subreddits or my posts gets mass reported. I detest doing this. But I like posting nudes.
I have absolutly nothing against other trans people who live their life differently or has another experience with their bodies and their prefrences. I'm quite fond of a lot of them personally even. Policing other people is a waste of everyone's energy, so I'm just going to do me and let you do you.
My dick: I'm not post op, I use a prosthetic. You can send me a private message if you'd like to know more about it. Unless you're asking for information (and preferably not even then) my cock is not anything other than a cock. Do not call my dick a strap or a toy.
Other socials: I hang out on bluesky a bit and I have a Tumblr, they're linked on my profile. I write erotica and post it on AO3. Rarely. I'm on fetlife for my personal kink life and "professional" photography. I only add friends. If we've chatted and gotten along you could ask for them if you're interested but I prefer to chat on here.
βββββββββββββββββββββββββββββ I've removed the whole section on likes and dislikes, it should be pretty obvious from the content I share and interact with what kinks I'm generally fond of and I don't want to encourage sexual first messages.
The things I'm into and the things I'm not varies from person to person and shifts with my mood so you won't really gain much insight from a set list either way.
Ask questions if you're curious, talking about kink is something I do enjoy. However, and I shouldn't even have to say this but obviously do not bring up anything that's real and illegal with me. I do not want to hear about it.
I practice RACK but also YKINMKBYKIO
βββββββββββββββββββββββββββββ A last note:
If youβre experiencing a bad drop from being in online NSFW spaces, then Iβm a safe person to reach out to.
If you have questions, need to talk about something or would like advice, Iβm a safe person to reach out to.
If you feel alone or want a change in the type of interactions that usually comes with posting in NSFW spaces, then I'm a safe person to reach out to.
My chat is always open to those that wish or need to talk to someone. Together we keep the kink scene safe.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 1 year ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/u__cry_for_...