This is going to sound weird but most people go straight to sex. Sex is kind of boring. If you've seen one scene of having sex, you've seen every scene of having sex. There's only so many ways it can be done. If roleplaying, you could literally just Google a sex scene and then paste it into chat and it would probably do you just fine. No one would know the difference. So it's boring to me.

Being told just do something is also boring.

Know what is fun? And this might be boring for everyone else... I enjoy the sexual banter that happens before and after. I enjoy sexual rules that put pressure on sexual tension without directly forcing sex.

For example, maybe you decide you've had enough of my teasing and tormenting so you decide to confront me about it. You say I can either take responsibility for your erection or I can accept another house rule to make things more fair. Because after all you have to live in the house as well.

So let's say I decide to go with the other rule because you know.. I just wanted to tease you I didn't actually want to play with it.

Maybe the new rule is that I will only be allowed to wear clothing that you personally approve and pick out everyday. Because what could possibly go wrong there? At first, probably nothing. You would give me a reasonable outfit to wear.

But then you would catch me wearing something different again. Against the rules. You can punish this by locking all of my clothing away in a locked room but only you have the key for. And then for the first day you don't even give me anything to wear because you're teaching me a lesson. You make me earn the clothing back.

Or maybe you make me wear bondage clothing because that's "all that's available". Maybe one way I earn my clothing back (or some other random perk) is by agreeing to wear wrist and ankle restraints at all times. Or maybe a jewel plug.

And eventually, after lots and lots and lots of teasing you would also decide that it is morally wrong for a woman to masturbate in the house. So you would add a new rule to make it so that I can't masturbate to relieve my horniness. Eventually I would beg you for relief and the tables would be turned.

Relief would not be so easy though. Relief would come with conditions.

Do you see what I'm getting at? You can see the direction and the style of it. Right? Maybe it's too much elaboration maybe it's too complicated. Maybe I should just write my own erotic novel. But that's what turns me on.