A lot of people enjoy sex.
You're supposed to enjoy sex.
Anyone that makes it so another can't enjoy the act again needs to be locked up and never see the light of day again.
A lot of people claim to be always ready and horny, call themselves sluts, whores, sex addicts, etc.
But they don't get it. Yes they might enjoy sex or take risks to get sex, or sleep around recklessly or serial cheat, but there's people out there thst are actually dependant on it (sex).

Some people have a medically recorded arousal state of aprox 45 min of every hour even when sleeping. When this is the case the person often actually needs sexual release several times a day, every day, or suffer literal physical pain and can even lead to emotional "dehydration" and cloud mental capabilities like being very hungover. Much like a drug addiction, sensations of crawling skin, physical overstimulation from physical contact (even from clothing) causes pain and sometimes to the point of overwhelming pleasure...but doesnt cause/trigger release. When it gets to this point solo sexual release barely vents any of the buildup and is almost useless.

It's not always all non stop "oohs and ahhhs" being dependant on sex...it can be, when time, work life balance, partners health, your own health, etc can line up; but it can also make you actually incapable of work. Having to have sex or masturbate twice a day while having covid to not make myself "sicker" was not great. And when you try to explain it to people they (many of them anyway) nod and say "I like sex too" or say you're making it up to get laid.

You may ask why I'm posting this, and tbh I'm not even 100% sure myself, other then I've recently been in the withdrawal state myself for a few days (not the same as a regular normal sex response not happening for a few days) and either I need to vent about it, or I'm hoping someone else feeling like this or suffering the same medical/psychological issue might not feel so alone in living with it....I honestly don't know. Not looking for pitty or sympathy or to be told it's all in my head, just maybe looking to spread awareness or something about something a lot of people dont think is real or misguidedly wish they had.

Have a day