I'm career oriented and as such work is very stressful and time-demanding. In my normal life I have to make difficult decisions and focus heavily on things that I "need" to do.

[Kink is my outlet - I get to focus my attention and energy on the things I "want" to do.]

I'm the ugly duckling/late bloomer. Even now, in my opinion I am very misunderstood - I'm the guy who is kind and polite and I feel very strongly that this has inhibited my ability to attract the women I would like to connect with.

I'm searching for someone I can be a gentleman with outside and an animal with inside.

I enjoy movies (especially scary ones like 'it', the insidious and conjuring movies - action, suspense/thriller, adventure, and comedy). [Seriously, if cuddling with me while watching a scary movie doesn't interest you, it's not going to work]

I'm kind of a nerd and enjoy the MCU phases 1-3, Deadpool, star wars, and the newer Star Trek. I never got into anime or D&D though.

Hannibal, True Detective (S1&4), The Wire, Always Sunny, Community, The Office, and Big Bang Theory are some of my favorite shows.

I'm mostly a homebody (Paracord, art, 3d printing, video games, learning guitar, things like that).

I love going to the mall, bowling, Dave and Busters, mini golf, billiards, and going out to eat. A lot of those things are just better with a pretty girl to take with me.

I do NOT like hiking. I worked outdoors for about 10 years and I much prefer the gym. If hiking and nature walking are your thing, I'm probably not your guy (unless we are zip lining or something like that).

When I'm in the right mindset, I work out 1-3 times a week, I'm energetic, and I'm inspired to be creative.

I'm looking for a woman to be my muse and who enjoys at least the same kink stuff, but ideally other aspects of what I'm into as well.

I'd also like someone to cuddle and chill out with. 420 and alcohol friendly (not during play when a safe word would be applicable, etc.).

Be there for me and I will be there for you.

I prefer to meet in person. If my posts appeals to you, be open to meeting. Don't keep me waiting and tell me you're worth it - I'm worth it.