It seems like there are some women who like to appropriate masculinity and alpha status into their own modern definition. I made a comment to one about how I prefer 1 on 1 sessions as "I'm too alpha to share", minus cuckolding. The reply being something like "my man is alpha as they come, did martial arts for ten years, just very secure with himself and likes to share". There is nothing wrong with that (sharing,ect..)to be clear. Its a kink. But definitely not an alpha attitude. While alphas are very secure with themselves, show me in the animal/mammal kingdom the alpha who shares his meal and women with everybody. Some may choose, depending on the severity to let the weaker members eat first....to take care of the pack, though more rare. But I've never heard of an alpha inviting everyone in to tag team his girl. I'm not putting anyone down here, but let's be real. Alpha is a king's attitude. Its a power thats won through challenge. Its two rams butting heads to win the mate, and the lion who eats first and fucks all the women securing his lineage. You can still be secure with yourself and your relationship. You can still be machismo. But alphas are different. We walk, talk, and act different. Our "security" is derived from our sheer strength, power, and ability. Its primal instinct. There are plenty of guys who are a "man's man"...but don't carry the alpha instinct....and thats ok! But let's not sit here and pretend that being the alpha is about some modern kink. Tbh, alphas are probably the worst mates in this era. Only a truly submissive woman could pair with an alpha in a monogamous relationship. His instinct to lead and dominate are not compatible with most alpha women( unless its a compliment by being a power couple and pushing each other to achieve great things), but thats more rare imo than status quo...and there are alot more alpha women than alpha men. Again....a problem of modernity and 3rd wave feminism. And yeah....I benefit off it with "sexually free" women. But don't try and create defined terms thats born from proto civilization. We are the original man, the conquerors, the hunters, and genetically preferred specimen to breed with. Today they just call us "daddy", but our warrior king spirit lives on, and modern feminine definitions will not change that. And it doesn't (really) matter tbh. As I've said, plenty good, masculine, sexually carefree men out there....just not "alpha", and thats ok, like I said, its preferred nowadays. Only saying bc if we show common interest in hookup, but I (or either man or woman) decline bc I won't spit roast you while high fiving your dude, or have no interest in gang bang or your guy wants to lick my nuts while I'm balls deep...its bc I'm there for YOU and our satisfaction only. I'm not into sharing that experience with other men, bc in my mind....I am the only man. THAT is the alphas mentality.....even at our own peril. Hope that clears some things up about alphas.