Ground Rules

Please be mindful of how you speak to me. I am broadly submissive, but I am specifically a submissive to my romantic partner of three years. If you start off interacting with me under the assumption I will treat you the same as I do my fiance, you’re leaving a bad impression.

Unless a ”looking for” post is made, I’m currently not looking for much irl other than friendships. I’m just an attention whore.

Kink

I’m fairly new to the practice of kink, and a shallow initiate into the actual community even though I’ve dabbled in events for a few years. I've had uncommon urges more or less since the moment I realized I had a libido, but did not act on them in a meaningful way until I met my fiancé.

I’ve been exploring kink with my partner of 3 years since we first met, and it's everything I've hoped for. I adore practicing kink, but I've found that emotional intimacy and mutual interests are just as important with how close our relationship is. In this regard, intimacy/familiarity is also key to me enjoying kink in most cases.

In exploring my tastes, I've found I have inclinations toward most submissive roles, though I’m a pillow princess at heart. My actual participation in a dom/sub dynamic is something I’m really trying to take more seriously this year, and my fiancé has done so much in motivating me to pursue it. I’m open to trying most things, but some of my standout interests are:

Ass worship: Pretty much my number one paraphilia. The depth of my interest in facesitting, rimming, and adjacent acts were one of the earliest signs of my non-normative sexual interests. This is the kind of mutual kink that pretty much guarantees my interest out the gate.

Anal play/bottoming: A long held curiosity I’m just starting to explore properly. Thrusting is quite painful for me which makes it a slow process, but I’m working on stretching. I have a plug in for at least six hours now, most days.

Chastity/Orgasm Denial: Another longstanding curiosity I’m new to. I finally have the discipline to start experimenting with cages, and my fiance has come to very much enjoy keeping me horny. Hoping to go long-term in the near future.

Feminization: A subject matter I have a complicated relationship with, but I don’t deny the appeal. I’m making plans to begin HRT soon for separate personal reasons but kink incentivizes every subject with taboos, and damn if I haven’t been socially primed to be interested.