G'day everyone

I am not sure if I am the only one, but I cannot enter a dynamic with a person until we have built a level of trust and communication.

I don't expect you to put your life, your safety, your looks, and my reputation on the line if we are not trusting of eachother.

You need to be comfortable with me, and the dynamic we wish to engage in.

I have seen the effects of Doms who have no idea, and it's not pretty. For those who have been in that situation I am sorry.

This is where after care comes into the equation. I may have just spent the last few hours dehumanising you, or binding you and spanking you.... bruising your arse your breasts, your thighs, or even over stimulating you until you are a quivering and exhausted puddle on the floor.... you are still a good girl, an important part of my life that deserves the respect, trust and love that comes with being in a dynamic with me.

Ensure you have trust in your partner, a great Dom and great sub are rare to find.