My wife has given me a hall pass for a trip to Vegas in June 2023. She'll be home playing Diablo 4, while my friends and I drink, catch a show, and play some poker.

Writing this up once so I can reference it in my posts:

Background

Menopause and various medications have significantly hit her libido. I love her dearly, and we do tons together - just not the physical stuff. While her body doesn't need it, mine reminds me often that it does. We have sex - lube is amazing stuff - but she no longer cums from it. I can (do) get her off with oral, but she's just not into giving anymore either. And she is no longer interested in - to the point of almost being repulsed by the idea of - giving head. Which is unfortunate, as blowjobs were one of my favorite things.

We talked about it, and she suggested (seriously!) that during my trip to Vegas, maybe I should find somebody that will give what she can't. We love each other, know it doesn't come between us (we've done this twice before), and that if done on a trip away from home, there's no worry about this coming back to bite us somehow.

And she has rules:

Rules

• She doesn't want to know about it
• None of our friends (my travel companions) can know about it
• I can eat all the pussy I want, but I can't fuck any. I only get to fuck hers.
• No paying for it
• No trading face pics.

I have one more rule: no guys. Sorry just not into it, no matter how good you are. It's just not a turn on.