NOT looking for single guys. Fully vaccinated / D&D free / SAFE SEX ONLY *Exploring our kinks.

As working professionals, we value our privacy.

We don’t give our phone numbers as they are tied to work (we’re not big into a lot of online chatting). Mr. Starface does 90% of the LS admin work, but Ms. Starface is kept up to date on all potential connections.

**Full disclosure: He is uncut and decidedly average sized, v-safe.

**The Mrs. can be shy at first. She appreciates when a couple can initiate good back & forth conversation with all; funny smart conversation that helps her relax, be herself and feel engaged in the chatter =]

***A BIG TURN OFF for her are couples who only talk about themselves without pause and rarely if ever inquire about others at the table and their lived experiences in & out of the LS community.

Describe the type of people you wish to meet.

Ideally we love meeting relaxed individuals who have a good sense of humour, an easy laugh and can carry smart conversation. Ideologically, we’re very Liberal minded and like to try new things (restaurants especially). We’re not models but we try to take care of our health by eating right and exercising daily. In terms of physical attraction, we look for similar qualities in others (healthy & fit, height-weight proportionate).

Out of the bedroom we’re huge nerds! We love board games, pop culture movies (Marvel / Star Wars, big budget stuff). He loves video games; she’s into knitting and watercolor painting. Both love reading, both love Dungeons & Dragons. She’s taken baking/culinary classes and we love hosting couples once a connection is established.

What kinds of sexual activities do you like? Dislike?

We are pretty open minded, sex-positive, LGBTQ friendly. We want everyone to feel safe, secure and engaged so if something does not feel right, we appreciate people being open to say what does or does not work for them. We appreciate deep passionate kissers and like a constant ebb and flow to the evening. With the right couple we like light anal play (digits, rimming, etc.) but she definitely does not like anal sex. He has started dabbling in bi-play but is very selective of who/when this happens.

We appreciate it when people we play with are vocal / demonstrative of what feels good to them. We want to know we’re pushing the right buttons and if we’re not, then educate us on how we can do so. It’s a huge turn on to know our play partners are genuinely lost in the pleasure of what we are doing.

**FOR COUPLES THAT HAVE PERFORMANCE ANXIETY ISSUES know that you DO NOT have to worry with us. Sometimes people get nervous / anxious etc. and can’t orgasm / get hard / get wet / whatever in the moment. So long as people are having fun, feeling excited, relaxed and genuinely enjoying themselves that’s what matters. There are many other ways to get off other than penetration. Being sexual in any way with others is always seen as a treat and privilege.

***** Mr. Starface has had his own bouts of anxiety during meets so he can commiserate!*****

**IF YOU’RE NEW to the swinging “lifestyle” and want simply to play in the same room, watch and be watched or do SOFT swap (no penetration), we’re good with this. Making a fun social connection (and perhaps sexual later on) with people we find physically, mentally and socially attractive is what’s important to us.

The Mrs. likes attentive and thoughtful partners who are not wholly about being pleased or focused on to the detriment of all the others present. Bonus points if they ask questions about or can listen to suggestions as to what makes her feel good!

We’re comfortable with both same room or separate room play (once we’ve gotten to know our playmates better). She has a real fetish for peeping at him playing with others from outside the room. He loves bodywriting. We’re good with whatever people are comfortable with or fetishes / positions they’d like to talk about first and then explore.

What traits do you like or dislike in others?

The most common answer given on this site: pushy or aggressive people, poor hygiene, lack of empathy, prejudiced attitudes, rude or dismissive behavior, ghosting after conversation has started or a date has been set.

Not a big fan of the smell of weed. She has an aversion to it during play. If you can mask it with mint gum, nice (but not overpowering) cologne etc. she’s good with it. SHE LOVES A NICE SMELLING MAN / WOMAN.

What do you find sexy in others?

A quiet confidence and a great sense of humour. She likes fit, muscular, well groomed men and he’s a sucker for lingerie (esp. thigh high nylons), heels, and red lipstick. MOST IMPORTANTLY, a playful flirtiness is greatly welcomed as well as honesty and sincerity in and out of the bedroom.

We love seeing and knowing when our respective play partners are fully, authentically into both of us and no one is “taking one for the team”.

An open, adventurous mindset is also a huge plus. Get us in the right mood, say the right things and we can get pretty adventurous.

How do you like to meet someone for the first time?

We rarely play on a first date (unless we meet at a club by chance) and like to get to know our partners a little before heading to the bedroom. Ideally, we meet for coffee/drinks (she’s a fiend for red wine lol), chat and share stories then if a second date is agreed on we head to either a club or a house and eat, drink and flirt then act like rabid animals for part of the night. BUT WHO KNOWS?!?!? Sometimes when the 4 way connection just feels right… things just MAGICALLY HAPPEN on first dates.