For the last year I’ve been exploring my sexuality, getting to know my mind and body. I’ve learned many things about myself like: * I don’t like receiving oral * I truly don’t like kissing * My g spot has minimal feeling * I like “cervix penetration” * I don’t like silence * Counting down while being given stimulation is a huge key to climaxing * I don’t like being degraded 99% of the time * I’m a pleasure switch

Among other things!

I’m working on trying to map out exactly what my desires are going forward sexually.

Honestly— I want more emotional almost romantic connection in my sexual experiences

I’m learning how empty I feel after a scene and I’m thinking the emotional connection will help…?

Here are the things I’ve experienced that I don’t like: * feeling like if I accidentally turned my partner on now we have to have sex * My partner rushing foreplay * Lack of verbal reassurance * Lack of aftercare

I’d really like to be able to touch and feel someone, feel their touch, and take time on eachothers body Especially non sexually— Just touching— just to touch—

I’m getting bored of being touched so that I’m more inclined to have sex. I want to be touched because they want to touch me.

With this—- indirectly— tension is built— all the more sex feels better when it’s not forced, rushed, or guaranteed—

(This is being humorous) Funny how if I feel like I’m being valued and taken care of… I’ll desire more sexual intimacy..??? What??? Crazy.) 💞(If you Dm me after seeing this post- tell me if you relate to any of it and why)💞

In summary: I’ve learned a lot recently about my desires. Right now— all I want is sexual connections that reach a romantic level. I wish to feel wanted and desired by my partner.