I want to give some sound advice here. I'm old, I'm allowed to at this point lol. Girls love attention. Yes, I admit we're not simple. There's absolutely a game you men have to play and it's not an easy one. And, all women are diff. I get it! I apologize! Many times, if you listen, she'll tell you what you need to know. So like, "I'm super busy" = I need my space. So texting every 2-3 days is great. Not with a lot of questions. Right? Then back off for like a week. Then every 2-3 days, and so on. Ok. Then there's girls like me. I'll tell you communication is super imp. Even as a FWB, if you don't stay in front of me, you're out. I have to connect mentally before everything else follows. That means, gm & gn texts. So like, my little landscaper yesterday hasn't texted me today. We're supposed to get together Sun. My connection is already fading bc in my girl brain, he's not that into me. My longest FWB texts me "I miss you". I melt. Then like a few days later "I'm thinking about you". Now, he can do that bc we've been FWB for 3 yrs and he is a very, very, very busy Dr. So I allow the infrequency bc he makes up for it in his words. He's never disrespectful! So even if it's a FWB, you still have to have game. And always walk her to her car or the Uber, and ask her to text once she's made it home. Still be a gentleman even if it's just casual. Just bc it's casual, does not make it less dangerous for us women out here. And for all that's holy, even if it's a fkn lie, tell her she's the best, smells greats, pussy is tight, wet, you know...and text her immediately to tell her all that. Girl egos are fragile af. When you don't say it, we automatically go to the opposite end of the pool with self-hate. I know, men need to be complimented too and not every woman does it. First, I'll never text you first. Second, I do compliment but many women see that letting you fuck her is the clear sign that you're awesome. So take that as the W. And can you all at least offer to pay for the room 50% of the time please? Geez. Also, make the effort to come to her place. I'm done driving to men first! Ok. Lastly, approach with class. Omg your msgs get you SO blocked on here! It ruins it for everyone!