If this post is still pinned to my Reddit, that means I am currently actively looking for a sub. Please read the entire post before contacting me. It is a little lengthy, but I hope that it is specific enough that it will limit any misconceptions 😉.

I am a husband with a full-time career and moderately busy social life. My wife (a submissive and a cuckquean) and I have sometimes used this account for when we want to swap or invite another woman for a more casual dynamic. What I am looking for currently is a woman, of any experience level, who wants to explore the D/s (Dom/Sub) dynamic for at first a single night, and then, (if there is chemistry after the first meeting) possibly moving into something more long term.

As I mentioned above, my wife and I also have a D/s dynamic and she is a bi-curious cuckquean. Because her kink is watching me with other women, she wants to be involved in some capacity (at the very least I would share conversations, pics, accounts of what I did to you, ect) but beyond that, her level of involvement would depend entirely on what you are comfortable with. You would dictate her level of involvement.

About Me:

I am 6’4. 240lbs, athletic build. Born and raised local (all legit; pinky promise). My career requires that I stay in shape, so my body type is such that you can tell I work out everyday, but also that I enjoy a cold beer and don’t eat chicken breast and broccoli every night for dinner. I am not huge downstairs, but I am above average and I know my way around a woman's body. I am a man’s man (I play recreational sports, drink beer with the boys, behave recklessly on occasion) but at the same time, I am classy. I love to read, drink wine at home while relaxing, and keep up with current events. I’m a little nerdy 🤷‍♂️, but also a sexual deviant that loves seeing a woman in pure bliss. This brings me to my most important point. As I said, I am an experienced Dom. More often than not (and Im not trying to shade at anyone here) when someone says they are a “Dom”, what you end up with is someone who likes to slap your ass, pull your hair, and fuck you as hard as they can. That is not what I mean when I say I'm a Dom. As a Dominant my goal is to make you WILLINGLY submit to me in a way that has been clearly established beforehand. Communication is HUGE for me, and has sometimes left inexperienced people confused as to my demeanor before meeting up to play. I ask a lot of questions: What are your limits? Which limits do you want to have pushed? Which are hard limits? What are some experiences you've had? What are some fantasies that you would want to explore? What toys have you played with? What toys do you want to play with? When you say you like to have your ass slapped, do you mean till it's red? Do you mean till there are little welts? Do you mean until there is discoloration????

You see where I’m going with this? Lol.

The more I know about you; the more I know about what makes you tick…the more effective I can be at giving you the experience you want. physically, mentally, and emotionally. If all you want is a physically imposing man to pick you up, throw you around the bed, and fuck the shit out of you; I can do that, but I need to make sure thats what you want first. To me, that is what a Dom is.

What I require from you as a sub:

1)You need to be communicative: I cannot read your mind (at least not right off the bat) so you need to be willing and able to communicate. I think I adequately covered why above. No need to beat a dead horse.

2)You need to be understanding of the situation: Again, my wife needs to have some kind of involvement in this, even if it's hands off. If that is something that is uncomfortable for you, no hard feelings.

3)You need to be willing to verify your identity: This is not my first Rodeo, nor is it my first time on here. I understand the need for discretion and the hesitancy of handing your pictures out to strangers. However, at some point, I'm going to ask you to verify your identity either with a live photo on SC or Kik, or by doing some kind of ridiculous pose that I can guarantee you can’t find on google images lol. We can chat for a bit and so we can feel eachother out, but if I am getting continued excuses, I'm just going to assume you're a fraud.

*btw YOU should be taking these precautions like these if you're not already.

4) You need to be reliable: We are all adults. I understand that we all have busy lives and sometimes life gets in the way of fulfilling our cardinal desires. With that being said, I take my role as a Dominant extremely seriously, and I would expect you to do the same. This doesn’t mean that I’m going to demand your attention 24/7, but it does mean that if we both agree on something, I expect you to hold up your end.

5)Lastly you need to be 25 or older: Now I want to be very clear about this one. This is not because of alcohol or drug consumption(I don’t do drugs) or anything like that. To me, there is simply a level of maturity that is needed when exploring this kind of kink…and I don't think that most people under the age of 25 are mature enough to both be self aware of what they want, and be able to communicate that want. Not saying this is universal for everyone, just saying in general.

And so, if you made it this far, meet the criteria, and are still interested. Come say hi! I can't wait to explore your deepest fantasies. See you soon -M