I am a 32 year old straight, brown male living in an ass backwards country, who has been involved in BDSM both as a kink and lifestyle for around a decade now. The greatest virtues of BDSM for me is the deep connection it can form between partners through trust and communication.

Putting a hold on the degradation front for now.

On to the main reason for this post, I am heavily into humiliation and degradation of others. But to do both safely and in a consensual manner is always a tricky matter specially over the internet. So I've set some rules for myself.

- I do not DM people unless its explicitly stated that they are open to it.

- with respect to subreddits such as r/DegradeThisCunt and others which allow flairs like it, I will only DM once per post that has the appropriate flair and after the conversation ends, so does our interaction till the next time I'm either reached through DMs directly or another post with the same flair is made.

-I'm not here to jerk one off. While I do greatly enjoy what I do, it does not need to be linked to sexual pleasure, that's something I leave to explore with my partners.

-More to be added as needed

On to if you're looking to DM:

It makes things easier if you open up with your expectations right off the bat, just saying "degrade me" is about as pathetic as you looking for validation over the internet- oh wait, guess I cant really expect much else from the demographic.

And finally, remember to stay safe, unless your kink is not to be safe, even then your life is more important than a kink.

Of course if you're not looking to be degraded and just want to talk, I'd be happy to discuss my views and my experiences at any time.