Because I don't want this to feel emotionally manipulative or like I'm trying to short circuit the part where we...actually have to know each other as people, here's a very quick summary of things about myself that I feel are important to know

I am 5'6 and HWP or very slightly over, so I am not a big guy. I have never been married and have no prior children, but I ABSOLUTELY DO want to have kids with my forever person. Serial monogamist, I have always known I wanted to be a Dad, I have a whole box of books from my childhood I saved to read with my own kids. I am more of a homebody than a social butterfly, I am nerdy beyond all get out but also generally try to seem like a normie in public due to social anxiety. I do think that physical chemistry/attraction matters, so please if you want to grab my attention feel comfortable sharing pictures early on to ensure that we both feel as if we are a match. I do have some extreme kinks as well, which I am happy to discuss more in private, or you can check my profile to see other posts I've made which talk more about it.

If that all sounds okay to you, please feel free to continue reading! If you have any issues, no hard feelings and I wish you the absolute best on your search for your other half or whatever arrangement works best for you.

Hi there Pumpkin!

Daddy knows that it hasn't been easy, trying to handle everything life throws at you day after day. It can be exhausting and frustrating to not have things turn out the way that you want, to constantly feel as if you're being let down in all new upsetting ways at every turn. But I want you to know that no matter what, Daddy wants to be here to support you and help you through it all. Daddy hasn't always known what he wanted himself, and to feel like things arent going your way, well... It's all part of life, and while I wish I could take the feelings away entirely, I can't - but I promise Daddy will be here to experience all of those feelings with you and nurture his little girl into the best version of herself that she can possibly be.

And of course I need my little cheerleader to do the same for me!! Daddy has so much going on these days, being back in school and in a new state, missing all his friends. Change is never easy, but I truly believe it can be easier for the both of us when we're together, where I can text my princess and know that no matter how stressful or ugly things feel, Daddy isn't alone in all the mess.

I'm sorry for how long it's taken Daddy to find you, I know it certainly hasn't been easy on my side between a broken engagement and relationships ending. Daddy truly believes there are so many kinds of people in this world and sometimes we just want different things from our relationships, so it isn't always that someone is bad if it doesn't work out, but that doesn't make it easier, I know. Deep down Daddy has always wanted to find you, baby - his special other half that will truly and fully accept him for all that he is, so he can do the same for you and we can start to build something together that will exist in perpetuity, from this life into every other possible version of existence. Daddy is such a sap, isn't he??

I hope your morning/day has been great so far. I know it hasnt been exactly the way we'd like it to be, waking up cuddling with Daddy and getting to spend some extra time together in the cold, quiet dark bedroom where it's just you and me and nothing else matters for a little bit. I know you had to pick out your own clothes and get dressed like a big girl and didn't have me there to give you a kiss or hold you or let you know how much I miss you when you leave for work or classes or whatever the day looks like for you today. But I promise, I'll make it up to you. Daddy cannot wait to build the perfect life together that we have always dreamed of, where baby and daddy both get to be themselves and be fully accepted and loved for everything that they are.

I don't want you to spend your whole day reading daddy's letter and feeling all wiggly, so Daddy will just say at the end here that he misses you so much, and he cannot wait to hear from you when you get home tonight. You have so many things to take care of, and I know you can do it!! I am so deeply and utterly proud of you, pumpkin.

I wanted this to be a bit like a writing exercise, I've seen the letters littles have written on here and they always tug on my heart in the hardest way.... Please, please don't feel like you need to approach me as a petname or engage in the dynamic immediately. I would much rather be respectful of both our feelings and time and find out how compatible we are, because I am definitely someone who falls hard and fast, if that wasn't apparent from the way I write. I truly wish everyone on here nothing but the best and am an open book if anyone has questions!