Early side note to any couples subscribed on our threesome adventures, here's a read about what we expect on the third-party. This is written to draw early boundary and impose etiquette that the third-party should exercise to prevent any drama and to avoid causing headaches to our relationship. Drawing a clear line before letting lust run wild is expected to make any spicy adventures fun and memorable for both couples and third-party (single individual or more).

Disclaimer: This post is only tailored to us as a FF couple. It should not be reused to MFF setups with unicorns. The priority will always fall on you and your partner, not you alone, especially not the third-party.

For men interested in FFM play with us:

Assuming I had laid down the basic idea of our FFM setup and you had completely read everything, you might wonder if you'd be up for it.

Guy Etiquette

1. Impartial

   Since this will be a FFM play, the guy is expected to be able to satisfy both women and balance the play that doesn't favor one over the other. This doesn't equate to stamina or endurance alone. This means the guy should refrain having favoritism and be able to stay equal. No woman should be left feeling excluded.

2. Spice kicker focused on FF

   Our fun is focused as a couple with third-party simply adding spice. The guy knows that the play will not fall into harem fantasy na multiple women worshipping one guy. Although certain fantasies will naturally be fulfilled during play, it is great to enter the bed with the mindset that the guy isn't the main ingredient to the dish. In the same analogy, a spice kicker elevates the dishes and does not try to change the main purpose of the fun.

3. Versatile

   Two women means two different preferences and two different demeanors. The guy should be able to read through individual body language and be able to satisfy both women accordingly. We have different fantasies for each other (that requires M) and we hope one of them if not all, will be incorporated during play. We also welcome knowing the guy's kinks rin and capabilities para dun tayo sa play na fulfilled and satisfied ang kinks ng lahat.

Expectations

The following holds firm and non-negotiable expectation from guys:

• Clean

  This means no B.O., hygienic, and regularly tested negative for HIV STD and/or any full panel sexual tests.

• Walang sabit / Single

  We expect headache free play. It will be publicly known that any entertained invites from guys are not in any kind of relationship, marital or otherwise. Guys hiding or lying about their relationship status shall place the blame on the guy alone. We do not condone any form of cheating, intentional or otherwise.

• Respectful and chill dude

  Vibe check is vibe check. I will respond to most chat invites outside any r4r posts na meron kami and will be open into considering a play with you pero it does not consititute fuck ka na namin. Hindi kami bayaran, hindi rin kami alipin ng mga ari ng lalaki, kaya dun po sana tayo sa chats and attitude na hindi magmimistulang laking utang na loob ko na mai-kama ka. Respectfully reminding everyone to reserve that attitude elsewhere. Wag po sana tayo magpadala sa dirty talks, iyon ay panghayok lamang at hindi buong katotohanan. Not unless the guy is already in bed with us and unless they are permitted to engage in sexual banters and dirty talking, any attempts to degrade talk via chat will be considered rude, disrespectful, and unconsensual.

• Experienced non-vanilla (highly valued: BSDM)

  We hope to find talaga is a guy who knows their body well (alam paano magsatisfy regardless of dick size), magaling tumancha in foreplay, and not-vanilla. One of the high valued kinks they should know is BDSM (di lang masama tabas ng dila o kunwariang dom). A guy who is well-versed in BDSM should know the extended legalities or formalities na need iconsider bago mag engage in BDSM play i.e. verbal/written consent agreement of what will transpire, clear boundaries with enforced safe words if needed (especially with CNC play). Hopefully, as the more experienced DOM masculine person that you are, sana you will lead the formalities po and relieve the burden na kami pa mag-setup. 🥹 (if the guy isn't BDSM-friendly, okay lang, yung earlier description should fit)

Note: Not sure if I laid everything na agad, will update this naman if I forgot something. I'm posting this first to have a clear message para pag magpost ako sa r4r subreddits, hindi ko na kailangan pagisipan technically yung rules. (Medyo nawawala libog ko pag ako na nga yung sasagarin, ako pa maghahanap, ako pa magiisip 😂). Next PSA read should be the about you and about us.