YouTube has never let me down. Facebook pages- you should be lucky about the ones you stay in bc some are HOSTILE. Reddit. There are ways you can start getting your mind right but it IS also just putting yourself out there and whether you feel pretty or not- BELIEVE ME- everyone has things they don't like about themselves and people will make you feel like there's only one way to look. All I can tell you is it's bullshit and they're brainwashed because of their own insecurities. You are among billions. There is NO unified opinion. There's no way for ANYONE to avoid someone trying to bring you down. Focus on the positives, cz they'll be there too. Free been learning and networking all by myself and I'm constantly nervous and just wanna respect everyone. I'm sure plenty of you would even do better than me honestly. I'm shy lol