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When Text-Only Doesn't Work for a Remote Dynamic
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This isn't meant to be a treatise or an essay, but a simple explanation for anyone responding to any prompt above or beyond a conversation:

There was a time and a place that I was willing to engage in text-only partnerships for TPE and other forms of control. It's understandable and absolutely necessary why individuals, especially those of a Submissive nature, need to exercise great amounts of caution and patience while establishing trust within an online dynamic.

And conversations are just that: conversations.

Providing/giving a function in the form of being a Dominant is something that I take with great consideration and try not to jump into with the zeal I did when I first did. It's a serious commitment and requires trust, and effort.

When people contact me interested in organizing some sort or form of TPE/accountability, it's a full effort that requires give and take. Putting effort into a dynamic for text-only verification is, essentially, role-playing. Taking the effort to show that tasks were completed is more than just writing a message back to state that something was done. Working towards visual confirmation is essential. That requires trust and patience, but if sustainability is an objective, it's essential.

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