During the pandemic I made a few DirtyPenpals posts on a pre-existing account with an idea to humiliate someone by forcing them to pay for their own custom clip on a content creator platform. Not exactly findom, per say, but the formula was this:

1. Find out what humiliating kinks that person has.
2. Agree to either get them off or edge/deny them if they agree to fund a custom clip
3. Work on a script for said clip, find a content creator, and have them make it and publish it with very clear hints on who it was for.

I expected a few interesting conversations and not much else, especially as I had directed it towards women. Instead the responses were overwhelming. I was answering messages and IMs for weeks. Quite a few serious, or allegedly serious inquiries, but no takers.

And then...

Well - let's just say that someone had some extra cash laying around and decided that it was time for her to put it to good use. And so we chatted, chatted some more, agreed....and the rest was history.

What made it special, I think, was the triple burn. A) It's humiliating B) You are paying for it and C) Other people get to enjoy it as well, without it coming back on them in a safe way.

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