LOVES

These are a core part of kinky me and I can't get enough of them. Consent enthusiastically given.

Petplay: I am a kitten at heart. Petplay was what got me into kink, and I love everything about it. It's ownership and power exchange in the way I want it, with tons of affection from both sides. Being a cat is my favorite and what I have toys for, but I am also open to any other pet you'd like me to be.

Public: The reason this kink excites me is because I like when there is something at stake. I enjoy having to take risks, and having to worry about potential consequences (so long as they're not putting me in actual danger or trouble, of course. Safety is important!). As such, while flashing and showing off can still be fun, my favorite part of this kink is being risky and having to try and avoid being seen. If my "dignity" is at stake, you're certain to get me very turned on.

Clothing Control: Everything about clothing is very fun to me. Being a dressup doll, sent to places in inappropriate outfits, being stripped, being forced to "earn" any clothes, you name it. If you take control over my clothing, I'll love it.

Slut-Shaming: The best way to humiliate me by far. Being told how much of a slut I am for doing what I am doing, especially after you made me do those things in the first place, turns me on a lot. I like doing something that feels "wrong" and risky and you then telling me just how wrong what I am doing is plays right into that.

Helplessness / Loss of Control: I love being forced, having no choice, and feeling like I am being toyed with, and if you can make me feel that, I'll enjoy it a lot. That could just be reminding me who's in charge sometimes, but if you're feeling evil, things like giving me a choice only to pick the option I didn't choose or just asking for my opinion and then disregarding it will really make me tingle knowing how I have no control whatsoever.

Bondage: I love bondage because it plays really well into the helplessness kink. Being restrained and unable to move makes it so much more real. And while that has limited application for online play, partial bondage that restricts my movement or even just makes me feel bound will turn me on a ton too!

Praise: I'm a real people pleaser and a sucker for praise. You telling me I did well and calling me a good girl gives me warm fuzzies and will make me try harder and go further for you.

Gentle Domination: Playing into the above, I'd much rather work with my dominant in jolly cooperation. Yes, I want you to not give me a choice. Yes, it's really hot when you talk about things im a way that doesn't even consider it possible for me to disobey. But I also want you to tell me you know I can do it, and afterwards, that you're proud of me. That I'm a good sub for doing it for you. Use my body, but coddle my mind while you do so.

Hypnosis: Hypnosis plays into the loss of control kink extremely well. Messing with my head is a great way to make me feel helpless. I'm also a dreamer and according to feedback, pretty easy to drop.

Orgasm Control: Once again just a fun thing to lose control over. Particularly denial and overstimulation make me think I can't even control my own body, making me feel like the owned toy I want to be.

Free Use: Another example of a fun way to do loss of control. Very fun when we can make it happen safely.

Variety: Variety is the spice of life! If you mix it up, do different things, and make sure I can't predict what's coming, I'll be looking forward to every session wondering what's gonna happen to me this time.

Body writing: Body writing invokes a strong sense of ownership in me, and love that. Cover me in your words and make me yours!

Sensory Deprivation: My final "example" for kinks that I love due to their loss of control aspect. Literally taking away my senses can invoke feelings of helplessness easier than almost anything else. Whether it's gags, blindfolds, earplugs or other things, it's sure to make me rely on you even more, and get me very turned on in the process.

Blackmail / CNC: While this kink definitely belongs into this category for how it makes me feel, it's not something that can just be done on the fly. When set up properly it's great, but that setup is mandatory - do not try to engage in this without prior discussion.

LIKES

Kinks that I enjoy and are fun, just not my absolute favorites. Consent given.

Anal: I love the feeling off plugs and feeling stuffed, and on their own those would be in loves. Being fucked anally isn't pleasant enough to warrant that though, and any toys that are used anally should be thoroughly washed before going anywhere else. Still fun to do, but I won't ever be an anal only girl.

Humiliation: Usually fun and enjoyable, but be careful not to slip into degradation - I have some soft spots there that will definitely kill the mood if you hit them.

Pain: I dislike when pain is the main event, but have to admit it's great as an additional spice to almost anything else. As such, spanks, weights, clamps etc. are all fair game so long as you have more in mins than just hurting me.

DISLIKES

Kinks I don't object to, but tend to not physically enjoy. Use if they are your main kinks, you want to humiliate me, or as punishment. Consent given, just keep this in mind.

Electro-Play: My girlfriend is very into this, and as such we have a bunch of toys revolving around it. I enjoy it when done right, but please be careful when including it, as these things can get very painful.

Choking: Scary and not fun for me, but willing to do it so long as proper safety measures are taken.

Sleep deprivation: Makes me very nonfunctional, but also struggling to resist anything afterwards. Use with caution.

SOFT LIMITS

Don't include these without prior discussion. Don't try to negotiate them during a scene. If want one of them, ask me before play. If we are engaging in blackmail or cnc play, you have permission to include soft limits.

Direct interaction with strangers: This means anything past flashing people - talking to them, having them grope me, etc.. Please consider safety here.

Feet: I don't enjoy sexualizing feet and think it's gross. That's about all there is to me for it.

Watersports: Very humiliating for me to do. Usually doesn't arouse me, but a good way to get me more subby and less confident.

Heavy Pain: This refers to pain that goes past what you would inflict in a "funishment". Don't enjoy it. Only use if you're sure you want to hurt me, and please don't overdo it. Anything that draws blood or causes lasting damage is a hard limit and outside of the scope of this.

Degradation / Bimbofication: Being degraded hurts, and I loathe bimbos and having to be one. Please not that if degradation is involved, then don't directly attack my self-worth (as in, you can call me trash, whore etc. but so not call me worthless). That one is a soft spot and thus has to be a hard limit.

HARD LIMITS

Kinks I do not wish to engage in. Do not request these, try to coerce me into them, or attempt to involve them in sessions in any other way. NO CONSENT

Recordings (Pictures, Videos, etc.): I can make recordings, but will only send them to my partner, not to you. Our interaction is and will stay text only. I am in a commited relationship, and this is the boundary set with my partner for online play and not negotiable.

Blood / Scat / Vomit: Just feels gross to sexualize these and goes to far for me. No involving any of them.

Sex with strangers: I will not have sex with anyone unless I know they're safe and std free.

Attacks on my self-esteem: I can usually handle myself, but please don't call me worthless or similar terms. It will hurt me in a way that I can't continue being in a kink mindset with.

Anything that goes against my common sense: I reserve the right to refuse anything I think could cause me harm. I will obey if we play, but that doesn't mean I'm just gonna blindly run into my demise. If you're a reasonable play partner, this won't be an issue.