Hi! Thank you for visiting and reading. 🙂

After fantasizing about Femdom for more than a year, I started my online journey in June 2024.

I have met a few different Dommes along my way, but still have not found my one true Domme.

My fantasies include body worship, facesitting, orgasm control/denial, being tied up, teasing/light torture, being objectified, anal insertion, forced anal, pegging, humiliation, dubcon, milking and probably more I haven’t discovered yet. These I would all like to try IRL.

Other fantasies that need to stay fantasies: public humiliation, forced bi, blackmail, feminization. I will never be doing these IRL - but that doesn’t mean I can’t fantasize about them.

Known limits are blood and scat, no face on pics/videos (but everything else goes), no financial transactions and my kids/family/friends cannot get involved.

Before June 2024 I was completely vanilla. Never had any sex other than normal sex. Never owned a sex toy. Now, I have a huge arsenal of toys that I’m still building (if you have suggestions, please let me know!), including a cage, which I never ever thought I’d wear.

You can see my collection of toys here: Regular toys: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1WpwA3E1UrAtExze5zMbTbQZeJHN0C6-0

Anal toys: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Y8vQe164cvYBMUFk2QjgkBGWozc0mlUa

And finally, I have actually also bought a lot of femme clothes, even though I still don’t know how I feel about it: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1UBK89uH_rZmFO66j26Evea1p3hO4MloB

One thing I have learned about myself on this journey is that I’m really into being humiliated and degraded, being objectified and turned into nothing more than an instrument of your pleasure. Into a complete slut. So far I have been made to wear a butt plug, use a dildo on myself and wear a cage. I’ve also had to wear female underwear. I’ve even worn panties in public (hidden). But the “worst” part, the most humiliating about it all, is that I’ve also had to take pictures and even videos of myself doing all of this and send them to people I’ve met online.

One of my next ambitions is to become more of an anal slut. I’ve started on the journey, but too embarrassed to do it, when I’m not “forced”. I hope to learn to cum from anal one day, so that I don’t need my pathetic cock anymore.

As a general rule, I can't say no to any requests, unless they go against my limits.

Love Spouse ID: 990077822

SnapChat: thomasn1979

Kik: TheSUBUrbanDad

Discord: suburbandad79