Hiya- this is my Boyfriend application and detailed information about myself in the event I find a cute guy/gal

Please don’t let this seem overwhelming. I’ve sent it because I like you and or have a crush and would love for you to know about me 🫶🏻 if you don’t find us compatible while reading though then that’s alright to and I love you anyway ☺️

Basic info-

Name: Rei / Adi / Rin /( i have many forms. )

Age:25 (26 on feb 14th)

Height:6’3

Weight: 210 lbs

Eye color - cobalt blue grey/ shifts to silver grey

Identity w gender- I know myself as an even blend of both genders. So probably a they.

With people: I’m open to falling for anyone so long as they aren’t neurotic and or manipulative. I do have ideals and preferences for hygiene and self care because it’s important to love yourself firstly. That shows to me that your capabilities of nurturing and self reliance are intact.

-Getting to know you-

Do you smoke: To unwind from working in a kitchen all day before I sleep. But not during the day usually. (Quit vaping) -trying to quit thc

Do you have kids: no, but I’d love a daughter one day. Not anytime soon but one day. Be it through adoption or surrogate.

Do you workout: everyday even after work. So I can fight off bullies.

Source of income or job: I’ve been a full time chef for 7-8 years. I started right after I graduated high school.

Do you live on your own: Yes with my cats and plants. But I’m considering moving in with my sister and my cousin because I don’t see a point in living independently from my family or siblings just to show off my ability to provide anymore. I’m lonely basically.

What kind of car do you have: a ford because it’s the south and we get ice.

Highest level of education- digital design and communication with distinction in the art aspect. Also with exemptions in chemistry, astronomy, physics and biology/biochemistry. I still study these topics today and have done everyday since I left school. (It’s my life’s love with food close by)

Hobbies and passions not including work-

Hiking and camping

Gaming

Music

Swordplay and form / free fighting

Gardening and seeding.

Cats ✨

Digital art and painting

Meditation and xen (to make myself healthy for you🫶🏻)

Self care.(to look attractive for you also 🤭)

Gardening and farming

Academic research and study for fun (the list is endless from the ones I’ve mentioned above to psychology and parapsychology. To quantum physics and the psychology of void. Any thing occult or related to magic, spiritual enlightenment and purity. And or anything that lets me heal people of their woes and trauma. )

Do you have a history of mental illness: No, but I have sleeping issues due to sexual abuse from the first 8 years of life. But also I make an extreme effort to understand consciousness and psychology so that I might be able to heal people. I don’t believe in anything that isn’t inside myself nor do I Trust someone outside of my mind telling me how it’s supposed to be.

Favorite sport or team: no sports or teams but I practice with swords and model after Miyamoto Musashi. I have a custom made katana on the chance I need one and will know how to use it. (I practice most days alone with repeated swings)

Notes: I’ve only ever focused on a single person, I do not have enough space in me to love beyond that. And I do not sleep around nor have I ever. I’ve only had 3-4 relationships in my life and all were almost 4 years long. I love hard and as uplifting as I can. But it’s always ended in me being cheated on because the females I’ve been with were to sexually deviate to hold it together for me. My love language is very physical. Can be touches to hugs. Even jokingly light hits lol. Other than that I use that playful banter communication style a lot and quite enjoy having that dynamic.

I choose independence and to challenge societys's ideals and normalcy for hate and individualism / greed. But that’s not to say i don’t rely or need people especially a partnership to open up to and not be so self sufficient all the time. Sometimes I just wanna be held and have my hair played with or my back rubbed until I fall asleep.

I do a great deal to make sure people feel safe around me and that they can be the most of themselves. Because to me life is about harmony with divinity, living a life of kindness and abstinence from ill will, and perfect justice for all Life and beings.