As my profile summary says, I'm a married, 46-year-old guy who recently (October 2023) discovered he's bisexual. 6' tall, right around 240 Lbs, and working on slimming down from a chubby to a bear/dadbod. I'm a grower. I'm introverted, but am hard to make be quiet once I start talking about my interests. I don't really drink, but I do use weed.

My wife and I have been married for over 20 years, and she's approaching menopause. She has raised the subject of a more open relationship, so here we are.

I've created this account with my wife's full knowledge (and encouragement!) to get to know myself better and find some people (guys, femboys, T-girls) to explore with in a decidedly FWB manner. If you want to keep things on the DL for professional reasons, I completely get it and have no need to talk about what we do with anyone other than my wife. And my wife will hear about it because that trust and communication is important.

I am disease-free and intend to keep it that way. You need to be clean, too.

I'm only romantically attracted to women and am not looking for a polyamory situation.

I do not want to facilitate cheating; please either be in an open relationship (any flavor: swingers, hotwives, monogamish) or be single.

Interests: Science (especially biology & chemistry), cooking, table-top RPGs, video games (PC, PS, & Switch), music (classical, electronica, rock, and lofi/downtempo), sci-fi & horror movies (not jumpscares; they're lazy)

Preferences: Redheaded women, buff guys, twinks, dadbods, cumshots, feminine T-girls. Cock size isn't that important. I love giving and getting head.

Turn-offs: Violence / aggressive / generally asshole behavior, humiliation (including cucking), dishonesty, and referring to women as sluts or whores without them requesting it.

Final Thoughts: If your profile is blank or you open a chat with "heeeyyy" (or any variation thereof), I'm likely going to ignore you.

And that's it. If you're in my area and see what you like in my other posts, HMU.