Married for 2 years. I have a great relationship with my MIL and husbands brothers wife (SIL). The issue is every time I’m around them both I spend way too much energy whether I’m saying the right things or if they secretly don’t like me. I also worry that they have a better relationship and like each other more than they like me, because I haven’t had a kid yet (my SIL has a baby) so maybe they think I’m not as important or as crucial to my in laws family. I know most of this is out of my control. Just when they talk to each other more than they talk to me it makes me overthink like crazy, which it’s stupid and immature to worry about this stuff and I try not to but I do.

I don’t really have any family of my own so it’s extra important that they like me.