A lot of people ask what a girl like me is doing here. Why I'm here, how I got here, what's in it for me? So I'll sort of explain without getting into too much detail.

I'm not sure where to start so this might be all over the map.

What happened? And Why am I Here? I was single a long while (5 years) after a bad breakup. I was enjoying being alone and was happy except one thing or lack thereof. Sex. I've always had a huge sex drive. Then I met a guy who became my fwb for a long time, 3-4 years. When we were together, we had amazing sex, passion, fucked all over the house on every surface, every position kind of thing. Neither of us liked quickies so we never had any. Could we have been more? Maybe. But not too long ago, he moved away, hard times, unforseen circumstances kind of thing. There's more to the story but I'm being vague(ish).

So after all that, there's a hole (or maybe 3 😆) to be filled. I miss really good sex. I get it, what we had is hard to find...and maybe I'll never find it.

How I got on Reddit? I've done online dating and we all know that's a dumpster fire. I've deleted those apps years now. One day in Reddit land, I was in a sexmeme subreddit laughing away and I tapped on a poster's profile. I saw they had also posted in an R4R group in a big city far away. I thought hmm, I wonder if there's one in my area?...indeed there was. So I found some good ads and responded. A few responded. A bunch ignored. Then I found a juicy one I really wanted. He got rude with me and told me I was a fake since I had a new account with no photo or verification. So then, so that wouldn't happen again, I started posting pics of myself and got much better responses. I've met a few people on here and so far most have been fun and more real than online dating (although i hear its a different story for guys finding girls). What I like most is I can see nudes first. I am super cautious btw and always insist on condoms.

How long am I here? I've always had in my profile, "I'm here for a good time, not a long time". And I am. Once I find that guy, I'm out. I do like being a temptress, it's a lot of fun and it's cheaper than therapy. 😆 But not many guys want a girl that posts for attention. And I get that. 💋