I’m serious when I say IRL only. No online dynamics.

Also serious with my age range. Give or take a year or so? Ok. I’ll entertain that. Absolutely no one under 45, however.

Relocation is not possible because of my child, so want to be up front about that. Also, my kiddo will always come first. I’ll expect the same is true of you with your kids or grandkids.

I believe I’m moderately attractive, but If you’re stuck on the perfect body and looking for someone with an OnlyFans physique (which is certainly your right), you’ve come to the wrong place. I’m older. I have saggy boobs. I have extra weight. Will I share a pic? Sure! Once we’ve texted a bit and I think it’s worth sharing because we are on a bit of a roll. I’ll want to see yours, too! If you need to see me before you can talk to me, you’re not the kind of person I’m interested in.

As for my preferences, I don’t have a type, per se, although I prefer a clean-cut look. If you have long hair, hair sticking out of your nose or ears, or look like you could be a member of Hell’s Angels, it’s not going to work for me. 😁

If you identify as a “soft Dom” or “pleasure Dom,” we may not be a good fit. I’m seeking someone with some skill in the area of impact (beyond spanking and paddles), sensory and edge play, etc. who can work with me to (safety and ethically) push my boundaries in that area.

Also, it’s really important to have someone who wants to take control in areas other than sex/kink (make choices about daily activities for me, based on my needs and what you believe will help me because the best “me”) and in my experience that is something some men are naturally drawn to and others are not. If you are not, but are willing to do it just because I want it, it’s not likely to work and that’s okay. You deserve someone who is compatible with you and your needs, just as I do.

I’m a lot. 😉 I am opinionated. I ask questions. I am a strong woman. I need someone who is not intimidated by that. In many ways, I am a strong person seeking someone stronger.