Hello! Thanks for your interest.

My partner and I host kinky parties with a theme of black light body paint. We currently are on our 18th party in 3 years! We alternate locations in Oregon but are very open to other locations if there is a group willing to host for an evening.

Want to join? 1. Send clear, normal photos of yourselves together. These will never see the light of day, there are 150 people before you who can attest to this. If you want to send nudes that's fine too. 2. Tell a bit about yourselves; experience, interests, desires, cat facts, I don't care just don't make me ignore another one sentence message. 3. Give me an email I can use to contact you off reddit. This email will never be shared with anyone else and will only be used for informing you of upcoming events we are hosting.

There is a listserv now for sharing information. You can sign up and unsubscribe whenever you'd like if desired, communication/your identity is TOTALLY anonymous, you can add friends to it if you think they're good additions (they will still need to video verify with me), and if it works well I'll eventually transition all communication that direction. The only catch so far is the first emails seem to go into a "promotions/Spam" folder for some email services so you'll need to go find the email and mark it as "not spam" or something along those lines so it arrives in your inbox unmolested by filtering.

BEFORE ATTENDING A PARTY YOU AND YOUR PARTNER MUST VIDEO VERIFY WITH ONE OF US. This is to prevent creeps, catfish and kooks, to ensure both partners are onboard and informed, and to ensure those attending are up to a certain quality standard.

Below is a summary of the general vibe of the night for those of you who haven't attended before.

-Cost will be $45 /person. Refunds will be offered without question to anyone changing their mind at any point.
-Party will begin at 7:30pm with a consent talk at 8pm which all are REQUIRED to be present for. -An address will be sent out to everyone 5 days beforehand with final details. I will share an approximate location in the official invite and sign up for out of towners to plan lodging. -The sign up link will be sent out approximately 3 weeks before the party. -A video verification is MANDATORY before attendance if you have not been to our parties before. You need to be proactive in setting this up before the party. I am an android user and don't use facetime but snapchat, instagram, telegram or whatsapp are all options for this. -Friends are welcome in this community! If you have someone you'd like to invite send them my way for a verification and addition to the email list. -Several of the rooms in the house will be available for visitors to stay in. Please respond to the upcoming invite email if you'd like to stay at the house. We will have it for Friday and Saturday nights. -Solo men and women are welcome! I try to keep the gender ratio relatively even so if we get too weighted on one end or the other I will begin a waitlist and will add you as we get others added.

Party Format: 7:30 pm to 11 pm: black light body-painting, dancing, socializing, optional nudity, general playfulness (minimal sexual activity in this time frame). This time is an opportunity for a gentle introduction for those who are exhibitionists, just dipping their toes into exhibitionism but not interested in swinging, or just unsure about that world entirely and want to still join. Basically a safe space for exploration without pressure to hook up. 11 pm(ish) to 2 am: continuation of activities listed above plus optional, consensual sexual activity and kinkiness. Be prepared for anything! If you are not swinging you are still welcome to stick around!! Partner-only play is of course just fine too! There will be several bedrooms available for private play, and of course the main rooms in the house will be available for play.

Things to Bring: An open mind! We are inclusive of many ways of life. Optional: Anything neon that glows! (If you don't have any glow clothes, that's okay! The provided paints will do the trick!) Optional: Safe and fun sex supplies (condoms, lube, toys, etc) if you plan to play. (Sexy play is absolutely optional - no one will be pressured into this). An expectation of condom use is the baseline expectation at this party ...unless negotiated otherwise. This is common sense. Reminder: stealthing is a crime; if anyone tries to stick it in bare without consent you will be asked to leave immediately A recent STD test is not mandatory but is appreciated for peace of mind. Optional: Personal alcohol or other goodies. BYOB. If you imbibe in alternative substances please don't go overboard. Optional: Personal towel for clean-up and a change of clothing. (FYI, the paints don't stain but prompt clean up is always good.)

Food: Light snacks (fruit, nuts, cheese, crackers) and non-alcoholic refreshments will be provided. Sparkling water, gatorade, and juices will be available for all.

Music: EDM is our baseline and we have 2 DJs who will be spinning for part of the party. We encourage everyone to dance whenever the mood strikes them! Spontaneous dance parties will be rewarded with hoots, hollers, and consensual grinding and butt smacks.