Why is it so difficult to find a couple in Cape Town who wants to explore sexually who are both on the same page and who both my husband and I find attractive 😄 It's been about 3 months, we met up with 1 couple who we liked but didn't go farther as I wasn't attracted to the husband. All the other couples I've been chatting to has fizzled out as it seems that the wives weren't on the same page as their men. I'm feeling burnt out as the female in the equation it seems that it's only the husband's doing all the talking. Any advice on how to find decent people would be appreciated. We tried Swinging Heaven, 99% men who responded to me.