So I’m guessing this isn’t going to help the amount of low effort DMs but I’m still going to try! I’d rather be with partners who are interested in me enough to at the very least read a bit about me to see if we are a match.

Yes attraction is important but I am more Demi sexual, I like to know you as a person! How you sounds when you talk, what sorts of things in life make you happy, what experiences in the past have you had that changed who you are. Maybe not that deep to start but I’m not someone who stays in the shallows. I like to chat on here for a bit and if things check off (attraction and personality) then move over to Snapchat or texting to plan a time to meet for a vanilla date/hangout.

You have the best chance of a response if either you A. Have a complete profile and have been posting(more than a photo of your penis) for a while. Or B. Send me a kind dm with some personality! Ask a question about vanilla me, or tell me about yourself. Send photos of your face and body. The more information the better! It’s really hard to be intrigued by someone when there’s nothing to go off of.

As for some basics, I tend to stick to the ages of 23-45 at the limit. I like to have things in common, and have found that it’s harder when the age gap is bigger. I’m bi and heavily interested in women / queer folks. Aesthetics don’t really matter to me, we can have all of the same interests or none at all, as long as we have personalities that can get along, we are golden! I can have fun learning about anything. As for kink, I’m fairly inexperienced. I would love to find someone who would be interested in exploring my top side! I only submit to those who are worthy and that’s unlikely without spending a lot of time together.

My partner is (orally) bi so we love to find others who share that mentality for group fun! We have been together about 4 years and have loved every second. We are not here for drama or secrets, just a good all love vibe! Friends first, then fucking:) We love taking care of a lady with her pleasure first in mind, we also have enjoyed welcoming the right men in to join in on the fun. Couples and group play is probably our favorite! We do play separately once established! I’ve loved being a unicorn for other couples or asking for some daytime fun while my man is at work.

Vanilla me enjoys all things related to art and art history (if you have listened to the podcast Artholes dm me IMMEDIATELY) I love being outside, funky lighting, long conversations, sharing kinky stories or photos, board games, chatting philosophy or psychology. I’ve started enjoying sports! Wild but true. I’m a spoonie with cptsd so flexibility is key for me. I’m also a really open book so if anything ever perplexes you about me, feel free to ask!

If literally anyone without a penis reads this I will be so happy😂 thanks for reading🥰