We’ve been resisting any sort of profile on Reddit for years. This has always been about discussion for us. However, it’s become clear that there are indeed many like minded folks that we would likely vibe with on Reddit. So, this is putting ourselves out there a bit more.

A little about us:

We (42M/40F) are a longtime married couple that occasionally enjoys adding other fun couples or single bisexual women to our bedroom fun. Friends with benefits has been our preferred arrangement over one night things. We’ve been members at Choice Social Club in Providence RI for a while now and love the atmosphere and friends we’ve met there. We’ve also enjoyed the occasional hotel party and have taken a few lifestyle vacation trips.

What we look for:

We tend to vibe best with folks roughly our age plus or minus 10 years. Not a hard and fast rule, but definitely where we seem to find our best connections. Folks that know how to take care of themselves get our attention. I’m not talking gym rats. Just a reasonable attempt at keeping in shape works.

Couples tend to be our main focus but we have been known to get friendly with single, bisexual women as well. We don’t stray too far from the Boston/Providence area, unless we’re traveling (Desire, Vegas, etc). We love clubs with a nice social vibe mixed with some dancing.

What we don’t want:

This is an open forum and we treat it as such. Anyone looking for pictures can move right along. We simply don’t share them outside of maybe a few g-rated pics to gage general attraction.

Single guys: sorry guys,no interest here. Nothing against what you bring to the lifestyle, it’s just not our thing.

So, if you’ve read this far and you think you might fit what we look for, feel free to reach out to chat.