I just wanted to talk a little about sliding in my DMs/Messages. But first, a little about me. I am a 36 y/o married woman from Oklahoma. My interests include reading, Music, food of all different kinds, and traveling. I am 100% serious about finding someone or several someone's that we can meet up with IRL. I DO HOWEVER expect to get to know a person before anything like that will happen. I'm not looking for someone to "Pull up", or "come hit", or even "show me what this dick do".

Now, I want to talk a little about my expectations for DMing me.

I do love chat and get to know people. Spicy talk is fun, but if that's all you bring to a conversation then move on please. Telling me your interests, hobbies or what you like about me are good ice breakers. Start there.

Age requirement is 23 or older. I have my reasons for this so please respect this.

Things that will make me ignore a chat request. 1. Blank profile 2. Low Karma 3. Just sending a dick pic and nothing else 4. Posts/Comments on pages that I view as red flags. Examples include degrading women pages, rape fantasies, and incest. I do not judge anyone for being on these pages, however it is my experience that if someone is active on these threads, they bring it into our conversations eventually and it is usually the point where the conversation stops. I'm just saving everyone's time here. 5. Creepy or rude opening message.

There is an exception to every rule, and sometimes I have been known to accept a chat request just from a vibe, or that opening line being pretty smooth. Just know that if you fall into any of these categories, there is a good chance you will be ignored.

Snapchat... I do have snapchat. It is a private snapchat and I don't add just anyone to it. It will usually take multiple conversations before you get the privilege of being added there.

I do this for fun. I don't have an onlyfans or anything like that. I am having a good time and meeting new people. (The attention and compliments aren't bad either😁) That being said, I have no obligation to anyone, so please remember that I'm a human, and talk to me like one.

❤️Icy