I have no interest in the following:

. No interest in younger men (ideal age range: 29-50).

. No interest in joining an existing couple/dynamic.

. No interest in married men/partnered up men.

. No interest in online/cyber relationships

. No interest in one off encounters/occasional meets.

Vanilla me:

I am (just) 26 years old and I live alone in sleepy little village in Oxfordshire. I currently work part time in an admin role. I enjoy spending my free time socialising with my friends/family, going for long country walks, swimming, dining out and weekends away... I passed my driving test earlier in the year so I am always taking myself on adventures. I am lucky enough to be well travelled and have been on some amazing holidays to beautiful countries. I love cooking and baking (I make a mean cookie). I used to work for a local radio station so I have a strong passion for music… anything 70’s or 80’s. I don’t watch much TV but I do have a slight obsession with the BBC series ‘Inside No. 9’ (if you’ve never seen it, you’re in for a treat)!

I am very calm, patient, honest, understanding and I like to think a caring person. I always try to see the best in people, and will always do what I can to help and support others. I like to have a laugh, and would say I have a somewhat dry and at times dark sense of humour.

Now is probably a good time to mention that..... I am autistic. Please don't let this put you off. I’d like to make it clear that being autistic does not hold me back in life. I am able to work, I live alone, I drive, and I lead a fairly “normal” life. For me it mostly means that I struggle in some social situations, especially when meeting new people, or going to new unfamiliar places - although I always try to push myself and overcome these social barriers. I don’t let being autistic hold me back or Dominate (lol, the irony) my life. If you’d like to know more then feel free to ask me any questions.

Physically:

I am very much a ‘plain Jane’. I don’t cover myself in make-up, fake tan, and I have never used fillers. I am more comfortable in long dress tops and leggings than overly revealing clothing. I am 5’3, curvy, have long auburn hair, hazel eyes, mostly wear glasses, and have very pale skin.

Kink Me:

For as long as I can remember I have always been interested in the idea of BDSM and being submissive, even before I knew what BDSM was I found myself having thoughts of wanting to be tied up, humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used and abused during sex. All my previous relationships had been very vanilla, so I never had a chance to explore my submissive side until a few years ago when I began seeing an older guy. He was not a Dom, but he was kinky as fuck… he would restrain me, gag and blindfold me, use canes, floggers and riding crops on me, and have rougher sex with me - to date he’s the only guy to ever make me cum! Since then I have craved nothing more than to explore my submissive side fully within a D/s dynamic.

My kinks include: impact play, breath play, restraints, edge play, humiliation, degradation, face slapping, nipple torture, blindfolds, gags, punishments, praise, orgasm control/denial, hair pulling, rough sex, CNC and much, much more…

Safe words and aftercare are super important and non negotiable.

I am at a point now in my life where I am very happy and settled. I feel ready to start looking for a Dom who I can go on a BDSM journey with. I no longer have any interest in finding a purely vanilla relationship. So… I am looking for an experienced, older Dom with a dark/sadistic streak who would be willing to take his time to train and guide me on this journey at a slow and steady pace. I’d love to eventually enter a long term D/s dynamic where the Dom has a majority of control even in subtle ways outside of the bedroom. I prefer guys who are older (29-50), who take good care of themselves, are respectful and are drama free (no interest in getting involved with married or partnered up men).

Finally - ideally I’d prefer it if you can host or we meet in hotels to begin with - due to my autism I do not feel comfortable even having my friends and family over at my house, it's my sanctuary/safe space. I drive and enjoy driving, so distance is not a huge issue for me.

I hope to hear from you!

~ M x