Long post, but I would rather you waste a couple minutes now rather than waste hours, days or weeks of both of our time later on.

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Every one on reddit is so damn young lol. I have met MAYBE one other person exactly my age in the other r4r subs. Everyone else has been younger and no one has been older. My last post here was relatively successful as far as initial interest, but conversation has pretty much faded out by this time. So, I have decided to try again.

I greatly prefer men my age or older. I am hella attracted to the chubby dad-bod. I'm a big girl, so you don't ever have to be self conscious around me. Gamers go to the front of the line. I'm more of a vicarious gamer but I would also love to be your player two. I have a bunch of single player games on my PC that I would much rather watch someone else play, or at the very least, them watch me play. As long as we are enjoying the experience together, that's all that matters. I will even get you snacks and stuff while you play :D

Gaming and nerd culture is pretty much my whole life right now. That doesn't mean that I am up to date on everything, or even most things. It just means that I don't have many serious interests outside of gamer/nerd things. Well, I also really enjoy the theatre and the symphony. So, if you are into those you can also go to the front of the line :)

My favorite fandoms are Batman and Star Trek. I still haven't watched Discovery yet, though. I got the free month of CBS and then got ANOTHER free month after not watching anything, and I still haven't pressed play lol. I think I'm afraid that it's going to not be everything I want. I'm really enjoying Orville so that must count for something xD.

Just a few other things for you to consider while deciding if I am worth your time:

- I am looking for relationship or friendship ONLY. No hookups or FWBs.

- I am a really big girl. No, I'm not going to tell you how big. If you have any issues with big people, I can guarantee you are going to have an issue with me. (Yes, I am trying to lose weight, but that is a separate conversation for me to have with someone that actually cares about me, not some Anonymous Andy off the interwebz -_-)

- I will only send pics after I am comfortable. I will respect the same of you.

- I'm not entirely against long distance relationships, but I'm not really the best person to try and start one with. Tried them before, didn't really like them. Plus, I don't have a car right now and I'm afraid to fly, so, the closer the better.

- I suffer from severe depression and anxiety.

- I don't use kik. Tried it once and got a virus. Your options for communication are Reddit PMs, Reddit chat, Discord or Google Hangouts. Reddit chat is a bad choice though. I rarely get those notifications.

- To warn or enlighten you, Brats are annoying and demanding, like bitches, but being a Brat is not the same as being a run of the mill, everyday bitch. A bitch starts a situation so that she can dominate and belittle you. A brat will instigate an issue wanting you to eventually dominate them. There are rules to the game, though. They will be discussed if we are thinking of moving in the relationship direction.

I guess that's it. Hopefully this strikes someones fancy :)