I will preface this by saying that I am looking for someone specific as I am hoping to find a life partner, and so this post will be rather long and detailed.  I think I would be ideal for an indoorsy, shy gamer sort that needs structure, rules and reassurance, but is also kinky and eager to please.  Someone that finds strict rules comforting rather than stifling.

I am:

• A midlands-based software developer with a decent income and good work/life balance.
• A multi-instrumentalist with a passion for music.
• A gamer that enjoys many genres, but especially JRPGs, action games and retro games.
• An enjoyer of memes, nerdy stuff and cosy nights in.
• 5’8” (172 cm) with an average build, but working on a more muscular one.
• Friendly, honest, and take pleasure in helping those I care about.
• A non-smoker, recently a non-drinker, and I don’t do drugs.
• Politically centre-left.
• Childless, and am indifferent to having them.

I am looking for:

• An obedient little and/or slave, ideally aged 25-35.
• Someone that is monogamous, cisgender, and of a healthy weight (or close to it).
• Someone that is calm but fun-loving and wants to share her interests.
• Someone with no kids.
• A non-smoker.  Preferably no drugs, although I don’t mind very occasional usage.
• Someone that wants to enjoy games with me, either as my player 2 or just watching (or vice versa).
• Someone indoorsy that appreciates rules and structure, and wants to please.
• Someone that wants to live the dynamic full time, and willing to live with me one day.

My kinks and sexual interests:

• Anal (non-negotiable).
• Anal and oral only relationship.
• Female orgasm denial and chastity, ideally permanently (but with regular edging).
• Anal training, obedience training.
• Bondage, restraints, cages, gags, etc.
• Latex, corsets, chokers, cute outfits.
• Piss in mouth/ass.
• DDLG, Petplay, bitchsuits.
• Sensory deprivation.

My hard limits are:

• Scat, blood, permanent body marking, and switching.

My ideal relationship dynamic is rule-heavy, but supportive.  The little/slave will be expected to learn and follow rules and protocols that promote politeness and submissiveness, while maximising her ability to support me as well as her own endeavours.  Punishments are corrective, and the goal should be to stop administering them altogether because you have become perfect to me.  Instead, you will get positive reinforcement for doing a good job, especially in aspects of your life that you struggle with.

While rules and protocols are important, I don’t believe they should get in the way of a healthy loving relationship.  I want someone who is my life partner as well as my little/slave, and so the rules would afford plenty of time and wiggle room to enjoy each other’s company and to help you grow as a person if needed.

I haven’t had an in-person relationship in a very long time, and am a little bit awkward with online relationships at first (especially using webcams, but I am willing to do so), so I would like to start with DMs, which we could move to Discord if we hit it off.  If you’re interested after reading this post, tell me what game(s) you’re into right now in your message to me to show me you’ve read to the end.

Apologies for the long post, but I am hoping that people will be able to self-filter themselves this way.  If you’ve got here and what you’ve read sounds ideal for you, send a DM my way.  I look forward to hearing from you soon :)