I’m exhausted…..I need a fucking break. Hubby and I will take some time to reevaluate what it is that we want out of the lifestyle. Single men get a lot of crap when it comes to the lifestyle aaaaaand ….. I’m honestly realizing why. I’m burned out. The lack of respect. Being objectified and treated like a piece of meat gets tiresome. Just because a woman is living her truth and being sexually free does not give men the right to treat her like an easy fuck or prostitute. I really think that many of you that call yourselves in the “lifestyle” have ill intentions. You aren’t here to actually immerse yourself into the lifestyle and genuinely enjoy the sexy dynamics. You couldn’t possibly have good intentions. Not with the utter lack of respect I see men showing women, myself included. It’s a porn fantasy for many of you. Many of you are messaging with your dicks in your hands and looking to get off. You have no intention of meeting, no intention of learning, no intention of adding spice and creating a sexy hedonistic experience with couples. Frankly I’m tired….. The low effort…..the flakes…the creeps…..the incels…..the dick pics! Oh the fucking amount of unsolicited dick pics alone drive me fucking nuts. The “Hey” messages. The “Can I fuck you?” messages. Oh and my favorite “Nice Tits, can I suck them?” I’m realizing that the Vixen/Stag dynamic no longer serves my husband and I. We will more than likely stick to playing with couples and immersing ourselves more into the world of BDSM.

It’s amazing to see women showing off. Finding freedom is their expression of their sexually and femininity. I love seeing beautiful women of all shades, sizes, backgrounds, interests, kinks, fetishes living their truth. I love this for us!

I don’t understand why men see a woman being sexually free and it brings out disgusting predatory behaviors. A woman enjoys showing off but it’s taken as permission to disregard the fact that she is a human being with feelings. You see a whore. You see easy pussy. You view this woman with such low levels of respect. This is why I say many of you have ill intentions and aren’t actually here for the sexual freedom and uninhibited connections you have the freedom to make. Who can I fuck? That’s the prerogative. And I’m tired of it.