Hi there fellow female reader,

hope, you are having a good time 🙂

What or Whom am I looking for … 🤔 And who am I? 🤔

• a lovely and positive woman
• to share life together, till the end (death, not breakup) - I don't like changes. Those give stress. Continuity, familiarity gives calmness and safety.
• to build a family together, having children
• she should be okay earning money while I take care of the little ones. It should not always be the other way around. They will be my children too, and I want take responsibility and to have time with them.
• No helicopter parenting. They need to experiment, fall & fail & stand-up & learn.
• Back to you 😅
• You are positive and tend to smile towards people.
• You see the good in people, and can forgive.
• You are helpful and giving.
• You don't mind doing things by yourself or on your own. I sometimes need my space, my room, time for myself. It can be in a physically separate space, or cuddling at you. There are people, that have told me, that I am like cat. - So if you have problems with cats, you will probably have problems with me 🙈 .
• You basically don't know boredom. You know how to make the best out of every situation.
• You are okay and good with people, as I want to integrate you into my family and friends.
• If you are more extroverted, be aware, that I will hide 😅 You do your dancing and talking and wohoo things, while I stay somewhere in the back, observing 🙂. If you need someone to match your energy and excitement and activities, I am the wrong person.
• You will continue your life, your hobbies & activities, your family and friends.
• Either have your travel-buddies, or are not into traveling. I basically don't travel. Cars make me sick. Airplanes are high. Ships have the dark unknown below them. So don't expect me to go anywhere far. I saw the train system in Europe, and maybe further, maybe being an interesting option. Maybe with the right person, and right target… Which definitively means: No Cities. No fancy hotels. The last years I mostly did bike rides and walks around *here*. Hopefully you will enjoy those too.
• As I have travel problems, it would be nice to have your family and friends in a reachable location, as I would like to see them regularly.
• I have family and friends around. So I don't want to relocate far away. Also not into big cities. I need a quite place, with quick access to nature, with a little diverse nature .
• I am vegetarian, nearly even vegan. But I don't mind what you eat. As long as it is good. And e.g. the animals had a good life.
• You don't smoke. I have a very sensitive nose. It just stinks to me. Similar basically nearly any kind of perfume. I prefer your natural smell over any of those. (With the right cloth and food I even feel like that there is no bad human smell. 🤔)
• I am a little sad, that there is so many shaving and waxing going on. There are nearly no real & natural women around. So it would be nice, if you would be comfortable to be natural around. More texture. More woman. Less baby 🙈 - As you probably suspect, I don't do any of those things. Just trying to keep my beard in shape.
• In general: being natural and simple is highly preferred.
• I would like to say, that I am minimalistic, but looking around, proves me otherwise. Still, I usually don't get things, unless needed. Before Corona, I regularly visited flea-markets. Sometimes also got some items there. Not necessarily the most useful ones 🙈. If you are a shopping queen, sorry, I won't get excited, nor I want to participate. Please don't expect me to come to many of your shopping-sprees. Those usually just make me angry 🙈.
• I am into computer science. I have ideas and thoughts, I read and see things, and also try stuff. And it would be amazing, if you would listen and give ideas, thoughts, help, advice, … to me. This also can happen in other fields, like math and physics.
• Sometimes I think: "I am not a gamer." But Steam proofs me otherwise. 🙈 There are times, when I play every day. Usually I prefer Coop and Action games. Always looking someone to play with - so be ready 😁 I also cuddle with you and watch you play. On my recent play list are:
  • Risk Of Rain
  • Valheim
  • Terraria
  • SplitGate
  • DOOM 2016
  • Counter Strike
  • Minion Masters
  • Awesomenauts
  • Grip
  • and others
• On the music side I usually tend to stay on the joyful & happy side. Usually no metal or similar noises 😅 But very often it is also nice to just hear the wind, the birds, the leafs. And sometimes just nothing.
• Oh, I must mention: Misophonia. 🙉
• TV shows (like sci-fi (Star Trek, StarGate), supernatural (X-Files, Charmed), anime (Fairy Tails, Naruto), good mood (Chuck, Psych, Lucifer)) and movies I usually prefer in there original voice, and then if needed with subtitles, e.g. Anime. More nerd - less war - more peace. Family - Action - Fun. Currently on the lookout for something. Else I rerewatch something. Let's cuddle and do that together, yes yes yes? ☺️ For documentaries, I tend to prefer the German made ones.
• I started woodworking some time ago, basically after one relationship crashed, I tried to build some furniture for myself. It was crude. Functionally working, but crude. Later I got some hand tools and got better. The last table went quite well in look and feel. (Don't get your expectations up 🤫) So you should be into hand-made things. And wood. Makes co-habitating and having & building our together safe-space easier.
• I have books. But didn't continue reading them for a while. Just recently took one up again and resumed a chapter or two in the park. Would you be up to join in?
• Sometimes I take pictures outside. Please be patient with me when I do 🙏

Okay, that turned more into an "about me" then an "what I want from you". I guess, it would be most pleasant to have someone very similar.

The bait is now out. (More like a huge stone, that hit you on the head and put you in coma 😅)(Oh, btw. my jokes can be super low, or dark, or stupid, or facepalming, or out of the blue, or…. Not trying to hurt anyone.)

Let's see, if the right one will see it here, and also dms.

Would be amazing.

Hope to hear from you soon.

And have a nice time!