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\**NOTE:* I realize this is a very long post but I will not be providing a TL;DR because I feel it is important for people to read the issues I have addressed and my stance on them.
Hi everyone. For those who don't follow me on Twitter (or don't have an account), I have addressed and spoken about my stance on the events that occurred yesterday. Since I have a bigger following on here and not everyone has Twitter, I will reiterate my response here to make it clear to you, my followers, what I stand for.
First and foremost, let me preface this:
Although I create NSFW content, that does not dismiss the fact that I am a human being with feelings nor does it call for you to silence me when I speak out on matters as such. I have a platform that I will use to amplify the voices of my black followers, friends, VAs, etc. It is one of many ways I can help and I will use this to all of its potentials.
If you do not stand for Black Lives Matter, basic human rights, and equality, unfollow me immediately. If you stand for "All Lives Matter" and/or "Blue Lives Matter", unfollow me immediately. This is not a matter of politics but a matter of human rights.
With that out of the way, I will quote/paraphrase and add to what I have said on Twitter. I will divide this into the following sections to organize my thoughts:
- BLM & America
- Non-Black POC
- Resources
- Closing Statement & Final Thoughts
BLM & America
As someone who is a POC but neither black nor American, I cannot speak for everyone but I can use my voice and platform (no matter how small or significant) to tell you that BLACK LIVES STILL MATTER AND WILL ALWAYS MATTER. It sickens and disgusts me to find out the malicious treatment POC, specifically BIPOC, receives in the States.
There are no valid arguments or excuses against this. Do NOT tell me that "All lives matter" because:
- Saying "black lives matter" does NOT mean "only black lives matter". It, in no way, alienates other people when someone says "black lives matter". It is a statement that reflects what it says: Black lives matter. If you're offended when I, or anyone else, saying this, step back and keep your mouth shut. The only reason you feel this way is that your privilege is threatened and suddenly you feel the need to victimize yourself. Shut your mouth and don't speak if you disagree.
- It invalidates and dismisses the feelings of BIPOC and the issues they are trying to bring light to. When you say those three words, you are missing the entire point of the argument at hand. You are refusing to acknowledge and address the situation because it doesn't concern you and your selfish, egotistic tendencies can't handle that.
- You are silencing the voices of black people who are fighting for basic human rights. I mean this with all my heart when I say: shut the fuck up and sit your ass down. Stop trying to silence their voices and their valid concerns. You have no right or say in this matter. While I'm at it, STOP telling black people to "calm down" or "stop being angry". It is a microaggression towards black people and you are invalidating their feelings as well as dismissing their concerns. You are perpetrating the harmful stereotype that "black people are always angry and/or aggressive". So I say it again and once more β SHUT THE FUCK UP AND SIT YOUR ASS DOWN.
Moreover, the phrase, "it's the year XXXX and people are still being racist/discriminatory, etc.", should have been retired years ago yet here we are. Black people shouldn't have to waste their energy fighting for BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS every damn week. They sure as hell AREN'T responsible for your lack of education. Stop being dependent on black people and other POC to educate you when you fail to listen anytime they speak up. It is NOT the responsibility of black people nor any other POC to baby and educate you for YOUR ignorance and neglect.
While on the topic of ignorance, it is NOT an acceptable excuse. There are no acceptable excuses for you to be uneducated and ignorant on an issue that has been reoccurring for years. You should've been educated long ago so for fuck's sake, stop pretending to be oblivious. Stop being lazy and DO YOUR PART. Educate yourself. Research the issues. Google is there to help you educate yourself. Stop pushing your responsibilities and pressure onto POC who have been speaking up for years.
You are a grown adult with access to multiple resources such as this. If you can search and scroll through pages of porn, then you CAN and SHOULD educate yourself. Black people are not your parents. They will not baby you and quite frankly, their energy should not and will not be wasted on people who are unwilling to learn and address these issues.
This is NOT and NEVER has been a "political issue" or "political difference". This is a crime against humanity where basic human rights are being denied for black people. If you support Tr*mp and the like, block and unfollow me immediately. I refuse to entertain children incapable of empathy and compassion for others. I certainly will not be open to someone telling me that this is a political issue.
This is not and should never be up for debate. I will block you if you try and tell me otherwise.
Non-Black POC
If you are a non-black POC and you are out there saying "What about _____? We also suffer from similar issues, etc.", sit down, shut your mouth, and stop spewing this disgusting and vile argument. While I understand there are problems other POC face, now is not the time nor place. As a non-black POC, I am aware of the multitude of issues other POC face and I am, in no way, neglecting or dismissing those problems. However, there is a time and place for everything and I cannot emphasize it enough β time and place are important.
When you say things like the above mentioned, you are invalidating and dismissing the feelings and concerns at hand. Furthermore, you are contributing to the silencing of POC, especially black people, voices. Right now, what they need is to have their voices amplified which is the least we, non-black POC, can do.
In addition, for those of you who have the audacity to use such an argument, I have something to say: stop pretending to care about POC issues when you are only using it to invalidate the concerns and problems black people face. You're not fooling anyone but yourself with your clownery and I'm sick of seeing these kinds of arguments and defences the moment these issues arise.
Having trouble understanding? Here, let me provide you with an example:
Your mother died and you are mourning at her funeral. I, your friend, come up to you and say, "Oh, are you in pain because your mother died? Well guess what?! I'm in pain and I'm hurting because my dog is unwell! I'm also going through pain so why must I worry about you?".
Do you see the issue here? Do you understand?
No one said anything to dismiss my feelings nor prompt me to say something like that and yet, I did and guess what? I sound like a complete asshole in that scenario.
Now apply that to real life. Black people are out here fighting tooth and nail for their basic rights for centuries and you have the audacity to bring up other POC issues now? Stop trying to equate your personal pain at the moment to a larger issue at hand. No one has said or done anything to invalidate your concerns so stop saying, "You think you're the only ones who want revenge because of discrimination?", because it is distasteful, appalling, and embarrassing to see.
Resources
For those of you who are actively helping and are trying to find a place to start, I have provided some links below that will provide you with the necessary information. Please remember that these are only a few resources out of several that can be found anywhere on the internet. It is not an exhaustive list and I encourage you to continue educating yourself on current issues.
BLM links:
https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/
In addition, I will link this incredible Twitter thread made by u/rogue-bunny which lists several black-owned businesses providing mental help found right here.
Closing Statements & Final Thoughts
I believe I have touched and addressed every point I wanted to in this post. If I have more to add, I will keep this post updated as well as on Twitter. Pardon my late response as these topics are very sensitive to me. As I've previously stated, it can trigger my anxiety and PTSD which is why I have been slow in regards to my lack of response and inactivity. I am doing my best to cope, don't you worry.
With that being said, I know I have previously posted a calendar indicating dates where I would release an audio. I have decided to postpone posting them until further notice. Please do not ask me when the audios will be released as I have no intention to post any this week.
Until I feel that it is a sufficient time to post, do not expect anything from me. In addition, if you donβt see me speaking on some issues, I am putting my efforts towards local communities and supporting people through donations, as well as various other ways.
Before I part ways, let me say this once more:
If you do not share the same stance as I do, if you believe in the whole "All Lives Matter/Blue Lives Matter" bullshit, if you do not believe this to be a crime against humanity, then unfollow and black me immediately. I will not tolerate any form of abuse or harassment.
To my lovely followers, I hope you are doing well to take care of yourselves. Especially for those who reside in the States, stay safe, please. Most importantly, it is exhausting as well as emotionally and physically draining to be caught up with the news and updated on the issues, but please, please, remember to prioritize your mental and physical health first and foremost. Eat something, even if it's a little, drink some water, and get some rest.
To my black followers, friends, and mutuals, you are heard and you are seen. I will do everything that I can to show my support and I will be by your side every step of the way. If you ever need to talk to me, you know where to reach me. I love you all.
With love,
Luna
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