Me- I am married but more of a caretaker, I have had a few GF’s in the past 15 or so years but I’m not into seeing multiple people, I prefer monogamy but def open to ENM with the right person I have exp with that also, I am not in a mid life crisis, I have no secret fantasies, I think fantasies are best explored with the right partner in a sex pos way, I enjoy the outdoors, hiking, camping and not killing anything, except the occasional fish, I love classic country and have an aversion for “pop” any thing, I’m also a lover of prog rock and metal esp rammstein along with BG, I like going to see live music, I’m not into bars or clubs and I’m a non drinker, 420👍 cigs👎 I have a job, a BA, a career, all my teeth, not a convicted felon, car, life etc.. I’m not to picky but I do have a pref for “curvy” women, I am available to “go out” not every night but pretty regularly and I can get away for occasional over nighters, you can be Bi, straight or questioning, I am straight (100%) there’s more I could ramble on about but this is ok to start and I know I’ll tweak it as needed or prob delete and do another ha ha. So I hope this finds the right person and I’ll also post some more pics later, or just wait and make some just for you, I am 5’11” around 165 I work out regularly and prefer a healthy diet, I’m not on a health kick, I quit smoking cigs about 13 years ago and over time slowly shed some of the extra weight middle age brings so my health is important to me but I’m not a fanatic about that and not to judgmental to folks who haven’t fully taken their reigns so to speak.

Deal breakers—angry people, ax grinders, cake eaters, players, if you have a significant other and your just looking for a guy to cheat on them with then I’m not your guy, no LDR’s, no strictly online relationships either, no hard drugs whatsoever, I was a teen during the 80’s and recreational drug use esp cocaine was popular among some adults but those days are long over and in this day and age an extreme risk and dangerous choice so other than 420👍that’s it even alcoholic beverages are way stronger now so I do not drink either, be comf in who you are, settled but not resigned, no cult followers, trump cult or any other, truth deniers etc…