TLDR: we are three years in. Our LS play has evolved in time

Us: We seek select singles or hall pass individuals for straight mfm threesomes no male/male contact and ffm threesomes. We are experienced in both. We’ve thoroughly enjoyed both.

We seek couples with no expectations that swapping happens. Hang out and party great. Girl girl play great. Build friendships and see if chemistry, great. But zero pressure that we will four way have a vibe and swap. This is our biggest hurdle in meeting couples.

Mrs here: She has a hall pass to play with other women hubs not involved or involved depends on the ladies decision.

Mr here: He has a hall pass to play but has not used it to date. Shoot your shot….He is not interested in male/bi play.

For single males: Most importantly for single males please read this whole thing. Your odds for success multiply the more you read and take to heart what is written below. This doesn’t just apply to the Mrs here. This could be your manual for success with most women in life and in the LS ….

Single males and communication:

If the Mrs is chatting here 1:1 with you or you move it to Kik or telegram or text. Be concise. Be straightforward. Be interested and keep it moving.

If a discussion is made to meet in person you have succeeded where 99.99% of males have failed. You have her interest, you have the attributes already checked off. Just be you, don’t be a douche and overly aggressive (don’t say oh I’m going to fuck and creampie you later as your signature convo piece). However, do show your interest and your initiative to FINALIZE a plan. She won’t do it for you. She dislikes guys that do not know what they want and cannot decide whether this is worth it ….

The meetup: we meet singles and couples together as a default. This is for safety and also we both vet each others choices. first and foremost show up. SM get a bad rep bc…. Well, they are the worst in general. They flake, they make up BS excuses. (Oh I’m so tired, oh I have to get up by ten tomorrow, oh I have to coach coed softball at 3pm, I really need to get in a workout etc). They act as if their time is more important than yours. It’s not, we all have busy lives and demanding gigs and extracurriculars…. The list for this keeps growing. Take it from me (a stag, a bull and unicorn veteran) what you put out into the world attracts what comes back to you…. If you don’t show up, it’s a one and done act. You are on a no fly list: Lifetime. In person: act interested. Be interesting. Be engaged. If you’re nervous admit to it. That’s kind of endearing and the Mrs will understand.

In the bedroom. Be GGG. Focus on the woman. Pleasure her first….second, third etc. Then you. Throw everything you have in your being at being the best sex partner in the moment. Why do women tell my wife or I that they had the best time with us? Bc I put 150% into that person right in front of me. And then…. I get rewarded.

Everyone else: there is a ton of info below about us. We are definitely experienced in hotwife/hot husband, vixen/stag and singles play