We're a couple that occasionally dabbles with MFM. All of the messages are very much appreciated. We don't 'swap' pics with other couples. I'm sure your wives are lovely but I have no interest. It's not personal but we're only interested in looking at potential partners. That said please no unsolicited dick pics please. We both know what a dick looks like and, even if it's impressive as hell, why spoil the surprise if we ever hook up? The person attached to it is WAY more interesting to us because sex between partners while physically enjoyable is way better if you have a connection on some level. Let's face it breaks happen during 'fests' as it were. Sitting around in uncomfortable silence is a real buzz kill. Being able to laugh and joke keeps the mood going :)