If I deleted our telegram/reddit conversation, it is because of any of the following reasons:

1. You bore me and nothing’s really interesting about you. Just because you have a dick doesn’t mean I’ll say yes right away to your meet-up/hook-up invite. Be interesting. Seduce me. I do not entertain mediocrity.

2. There’s no connection between us. It doesn’t necessarily have to be romantic, but I cannot meet and be intimate with someone I don’t have any mental/emotional connection with (Oo importante ‘yun sa’kin). We at least got to vibe good, have the same wavelength, and form basic trust & comfortability with each other before I meet up with you. This is not my first rodeo and I can sense if you’re the ‘pump & dump’ type of guy. And I’m not dumb to let myself be used and thrown aside by a random internet stranger.

3. Your offer is ‘too cheap’ for me. I spend a lot of time and effort to look this good, and I won’t settle for cheapskates who can only offer carfun and ‘split-the-bill’ arrangements. I have no problem going 50-50 as long as you will reciprocate every pleasure and good time I give you. But if it’s just me who’s going to do “all the work” to make you feel good, you’re delusional to think I’m gonna waste time, energy, and money on someone I won’t get any benefit from.

4. You ghosted me/you went MIA on me. If we’ve already made plans and for some reason you became unresponsive/you didn’t follow through while I can still see you active, I will take it that you don’t respect my time. And I respect myself well enough not to let other people treat me like a doormat. You can’t just come back after treating me like sh*t. You can’t go MIA on me and come back whenever you’re bored.

5. You don’t respect my boundaries. If I made it clear that I don’t like something and you’re still insistent on asking me for it/about it, then it’s a wrap for you my guy. I don’t go out with guys who can’t take ‘no’ for an answer.

“Ang arte mo naman, Lacee. Para meet-up/hook-up lang, ang dami mo pang requirements.”

Oo malamang. Hindi porket nagpo-post ako ng sexcapades ko dito, ibig sabihin ay isa na akong karinderya na bukas para sa lahat ng gustong kumain (EME). Kahit hook-up lang ‘yan, I still have standards and I carefully select those who get to access me. I exert a lot of effort on myself to look good and improve my character, and I won’t just give myself to anyone who do not meet what I require.

So if I deleted our reddit/telegram conversation, don’t bother coming back. You had your chance to shoot your shot and you blew it.