Hello! Welcome to my more detailed post about me and what I'm looking for in a relationship! I put a lot of effort in writing this so, I hope you enjoy reading everything about me as much as I enjoyed creating it!

As you might've read, I'm looking to be your soon-to-be favorite reason to smile, someone who can be both each other's best friend and romantic lovers. Ideally, you're someone who enjoys both the quiet moments and the spontaneous adventures, and who values forming deep and genuine connections. If you're someone who is passionate about sharing experiences, passions, learning together, and building a lasting bond, we might be a great match!

Here is a more detailed version about myself:

• Age: 23
• Height: 5'10"
• Sexuality: Straight
• Gender: Male
• Pronouns: He/Him/His
• Ethnicity: Chinese American
• Location: New York City
• Zodiac: Aries
• MBTI/Enneagram: ESFP-T & 2w3
• Religion: Agnostic
• Love Language: Quality Time & Physical Touch
• Occupation: Accountant
• Hobbies:
  • I love watching all kinds of shows and movies ranging from Netflix/Hulu/Disney /HBO Max to kdramas and animes! I'm also a huge Star Wars, Harry Potter (I'm in the House of Hufflepuff if you're wondering), MCU, and Studio Ghibili fan too! I also do enjoy watching a lot of youtube too. Mainly food videos and product review videos, however I do really enjoy watching Vtubers whether they're indie vtubers or vtubers from Hololive! Definitely would be cool to meet someone who also enjoys watching them too!
    • Some of my Favorite shows: Brooklyn 99, The Office, Avatar the Last Airbender, Rick & Morty, How I Met Your Mother, White Collar, The 100, Arcane, Voltron Legendary Defender, The Magicians, Star Wars The Clone Wars, Kim's Convenience, Terrace House etc.
    • Some of my Favorite kdramas: Goblin, I'm not a robot, Crash Landing on You, Descendants of the Sun, Vincenzo, Business Proposal, Queen of Tears, etc.
    • Some of my Favorite animes: One Piece, SpyxFamily, Alya Sometimes Hides Her in Russian, Shokugeki no Soma, Demon Slayer, Jujutsu Kaisen, Attack on Titans, Hormiya, Frieren, Solo Leveling, Campfire Cooking in Another World, etc.
  • I really love going to conventions though I've only been to ComicCon NY and AnimeNYC. Just something about going to them and seeing everyone cosplay their favorite characters from an anime, game, show, or movie is such a fun experience especially seeing how much work they put in creating their cosplay and even their props too. It's also really fun exploring the artist alley, and seeing everyone's amazing artwork. I usually end up spending a lot of money there every year I go, but it's also to support the artists too! I definitely would love to cosplay at AnimeNYC one day and it would be really great to meet someone who also would be down to cosplay with me too! Cute cosplay couple am I right? This is really just a thought and it's not something you have to do, unless of course, you want to! Just thought it would be really cute!
  • I'm a huge foodie! I love exploring all the restaurants and hidden spots in NYC especially to try out new places which includes dessert and boba spots too! My favorite foods usually start with Asian foods but I'm always open to trying new things! I’m also trying to learn how to cook as well, especially so I can meal prep meals for myself throughout the week. If you're someone who enjoys cooking or even baking, I definitely would love to learn from you!
  • I love exploring the city and chilling with friends, however I am an ambivert myself so I do like a balance of going on adventures around the city/world and relaxing at home!
  • I do photography on the side, though I don't really make money off of it, just more for fun. I specialize in doing portrait, food and film photography! Camera always eats first right? Since I do portrait photography, that also means I can most definitely take all kinds of cute photos of you too! If you'd like to see some of my work please don't hesitate to ask me!
  • I think one of my biggest hobbies is actually being a gamer! I'm what people call a variety gamer. I grew up playing all kinds of games and honestly it's a fun way to spend time with friends when I do play with them. I play games like Honkai Star Rail, Wuthering Waves, Zenless Zone Zero, Azur Lane, Nikke, LoL, TFT, Valorant, , Destiny 2, Overwatch 2, Minecraft, Remnant 2, Call of Duty, Overcooked 2, Super Smash Bros., Pokemon, etc. I mainly do play on the PC, but I also do own a switch and ps5.
  • I really enjoy building different things especially LEGO's, PC's and keyboards! If you want to see some pics or hear about my specs of my PC build, I'm happy to talk about it! I also grew up with building/collecting LEGO's and with a full-time job now, I have the money to expand my collection which does mean I have a massive lego collection plus plenty of unopened sets waiting to be built. Maybe we can build some together?
  • I’m not exactly sure if this is considered to be a hobby, but I really enjoy going to the gym. I’m not some gym rat or anything, but I am on a weight loss journey to lose weight and get fit so I do a mix of weightlifting and cardio whenever I go which is 5x a week haha. If you want to hear about my routine, definitely more than happy to talk about it too! I’ve I kept a very consistent M-F schedule for the past 6 months and I'm really happy to say that I have lost 33 lbs since then. I'm still a long way to go before I get to where I want to be, but I'm really happy with myself on how far I've come.
  • I don’t really do a whole lot of this, but I however do want to make this a big part of my lifestyle which is having a better skincare routine. While I do have a very minimum skincare routine, I’d very much love to learn how to improve my skin and also fix the scarring and acne I already have. If you’re someone who knows and loves doing skincare, I’d very much love to learn from you!
  • I’m not sure if listening to music is considered a hobby, but I love listening to all kinds of music ranging from American pop modern to like kpop and jpop songs! I also really enjoy classical music too! Crazy enough I just started going to concerts last year, mainly because some of them were free for me (perks of my job) but they were super fun! I think my favorite ones I've been to so far is Joe Hisashi, Laufey, AJR, Eric Nam, Keshi, NIKI, and Black Pink!

Here are some Fun Facts about me!

• I've never been out of the country before but I would love to travel more one day, especially around Asia like South Korea, China, & Japan! I'm actually in the midst of planning my trip right now to China to visit family and to Japan right afterwards, so if you have any tips, or places you think I should check out, please let me know!
• I was born on Friday the 13th!
• I played piano for about 14 years and plus I also know how to play 3 other instruments too!
• I'm a pet owner! I have a cute Pomeranian and 3 cats (Scottish Fold, British Short Hair, Tabby).
• I know how to solve a 3x3 Rubik's cube and my fastest time was 28 seconds but that was ages ago.
• I really like to collect a lot of different prints, cute pins and stickers especially from animes I like and games. If you're interested to see, I'm happy to show you my collection!
• I’ve met Eric Nam and Ronny Chieng! (Eric Nam is a music artist and Ronny Chieng is a comedian/actor)
• This is more of a League/Valorant reference for those who play, but I have the Riot Buddy and Riot Fist Bump Ward! Honestly really lucky on how I got it.
• Personality wise, my friends would describe me as someone who is open-minded, wholesome, sweet, easy to talk to, outgoing, empathetic, trustworthy, etc. I will however let my actions speak for itself though! I'm a great listener as well so if you want to rant/ vent out I'm always here to listen! Honestly though I'm a pretty open person overall so you're always welcome to ask me any questions you wish to know!'

Here is what I am looking for:

• I sound like a broken player, but to reiterate what I mentioned earlier, I am looking to meet someone who can be both each other's best friend and romantic lovers! I do want to form a meaningful and genuine connection with you so I'd love to get to know each other on a deeper level, but obviously no rush to it! Let's go on a pace we both feel comfortable doing! I'm not someone who will judge, whatever happened in the past already happened, and nothing can be changed. As long as you learned from it and make the changes you want to better yourself, that's all that matters. I do want to learn and grow together both as partners and as an individual, so I do believe finding out what or why someone does or act the way they do does create a better understanding of that person!
• I feel like this doesn't really need to be said, but I'll say it anyways due to my own past experiences. It would be great if I can meet someone who is willing to reciprocate the time, effort and energy to getting to know me as much as I'd put in to getting to know you. There just have been too many times in the past where I just felt like the only one who was putting in the work to get to know one another whether it was asking questions about each other or even just initiating convos/calls too. It's honestly just a really nice feeling when you're talking to someone you're interested in and that person is also showing equal interest in you too if that makes sense?
• I do think sharing similar interests/hobbies would most definitely give us a lot more topics to talk about with each other, but obviously we don't have to share every single thing in common, though that would be pretty cool if we did since I rarely if ever met someone who did. I think anime, gaming, and food is definitely a big part of who I am as a person and it would be amazing if you shared something similar. It's definitely not a must though!
• I think when it comes down to talking about what we value as a person and as partners, I do believe it's important that we share something similar. One of the most important things I do value in a relationship is the ability to effectively and openly communicate to each other. I do feel it is important to be able to openly express our thoughts and feelings with each other, actively listen and work through disagreements if there comes a time we have any. I also do value other things like transparency, honesty, mutual trust, loyalty, mutual support, empathy, compassion, kindness and so much more.
• As of lately I'm not too big into texting (though that doesn't mean I would not put effort in our convos when we do text each other), but just generally speaking I do prefer voice and/or video calls with each other. I really love the idea of having your presence with me even if we aren't exactly talking or doing something together. It's the concept of co-existing together you know? I also do find calls to be better in terms of getting to know each other since it makes it easier for us to figure out our tone of voice from the convos we have vs texting where it would be much harder to do so.
• Since I go to the gym, it would be so great to have a gym partner! I think it would be cute to go together as a couple where we could workout together or do our own things. Maybe that's the hopeless romantic in me speaking but we could totally be those gym couple TikTok goals right? Anyways having someone where we could push each other to strive to be better in terms of our physical health is what I really mean.
• I honestly do enjoy the little things in life and since my first love language is quality time, I'm always more than happy to do anything and everything together as long as I get to spend time doing it with you. I personally don't expect to always do something grand whenever we are together in person. I do enjoy doing tasks that may sound mundane, but can be fun when spent doing it with the right person. Things like going grocery shopping together at like Costco or something or even just run some simple errands together.
• I'm a huge hopeless romantic myself and I would love to meet someone who is also one too. I absolutely just love doing all those cute, romantic, couple things you'd always see on TikTok, Kdramas, and/or romance shows/movies! You know things like going on cute dates together, whether that would be dates in the city or dates at home, exploring the city/world together, experiencing new things together and honestly overall just making everlasting cute memories as a couple that will last a lifetime!
• At the end of the day, I want to be with someone who I can be cute, goofy, and wholesome with together; someone who I can call my own, someone who I can "come home" to and someone who understands me or at least take the time to try to understand me. I do value sharing a sense of vulnerability with my partner without feeling like I'm being judge or I've done something wrong.
• If I'm being honest with myself and honest with you, I would love to be with someone who also enjoys and even values intimacy, both physical and emotional. As you've read earlier on, my second love language is physical touch, so doing anything from hand holding and hugging to cuddling and kissing, I absolutely love the idea of. It's like that feeling of being close to someone, you know? This is quite the opposite side of the spectrum, but I would also love someone who can get freaky and kinky with me too. I love having the duo dynamic of being wholesome yet freaky with my partner. It's like the best of both worlds, isn't it? I do want a good equal balance of it. I feel like I'm a pretty kinky person myself, but hey, that's for you to decide whether that is true or not!
  • Based on the last BDSM test I've taken, I'm a switch, dominant leaning, but I feel like I can best be described as someone who is a soft-dom. I'm someone who can be very dominant and rough,, but also someone who is sensual and loving too.
  • Here are some of the kinks I am into. I won't go too much in-depth on why I like a certain kink on this post since it has already become quite a lengthy read, but if you are interested in reading about it more in detail, I will create another post and tag the URL on this one so you can read it.
    • Daddy Kink (Not the same as DDLG), Cumplay, Creampies/Breeding, Foreplay, Exhibitionism, Degradation, BDSM (Choking, Blindfolding, Bondage/Restraints, Shibari), Impact Play (Ass spanking,, light face slapping, pussy, slapping), Passionate/Rough Sex, CNC/Freeuse, Orgasm Control, Praise, Role Play, Voice/Dirty Talking, Somno, and Aftercare

If you have gotten this far in reading the extended version of my original post, first and foremost, I would just like to thank you and let you know how much I really appreciate you for taking some time out of your day to read more about me. If you feel like you are someone who fits what I am looking for in a best friend/partner and that we can vibe well together and even share some common interests, please don't hesitate to reach out! You can send me a message through either Reddit chat or Reddit DM's (whichever you prefer) Before messaging me, please do tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for/hopping to find and your ideal first date to go on AND your favorite ice cream flavor so that I know you read the extended version of my post! Please DO NOT message me with just a "Hi", "Hey", "How are you" or any kind of low effort message. I will not bother responding to those. Anyways, I can't wait to hear from you! I hope you have an amazing and wonderful day!