Well as it turns out you can only pin 4 posts on you're page and I Now have 6 so I'll be grouping them together in larger posts and I will keep updating them with my new guides, due to the character limit being 40,000 my guides need 2 parts haha so enjoy 🥰

Contents

🟨 Starting edging, newbie guide (PART 1)

🟩 Beginners guide to edging longer (PART 1)

🟧 Edging with sex toys guide (PART 1)

🟥 Edging FAQ

🟦 The pros & cons of edging

🟪 Edging techniques

The guides will be colour coordinated so if you're scrolling looking for a specific guide look out for the colours, remember some may be in part 1 which is also pinned on my profile!

🟥 Edging FAQ

What is edging and why would you do it?

A - Edging is the art of getting yourself or someone very close to orgasm and stopping before they or you cum and doing it over and over again. You might think completely denying yourself of that sweet relief would be absolute torture however it's not, the pleasure that can be gained from building up that orgasm over time is unrivalled to an orgasm that you have in 20 minutes, the pleasure is incredible trust me!

How do I edge?

A - Well firstly let me start by saying there isn't a correct/wrong way to edge, lots of people edge in different ways and use different techniques, you will develop your own techniques over time, practice and experimenting however the main premise stays the same, get yourself close to orgasm, you want to be doing this slowly to build up your orgasm over time rather than rushing too it, keep it up gradually to the point you can physically feel it building inside you, when you feel even the slightest hint of an orgasm approaching stop and let yourself calm down for a few minutes, take your hands/toys off, NO pleasuring yourself at all, take long deep breaths and relax your muscles. It's good practice to drink LOTS of water so keep a bottle handy, we'll get to why later in the post.

How do I stop without cumming?

A - The art of completely denying your orgasm when you can feel it just seconds away is a strange feeling at first so don't worry if you struggle at the start we all did. It's a game of practice makes perfect, when you start to sense you might be getting close to an orgasm building, slow everything down, slow down your hand movements and really really concentrate on your pleasure, your body will give you plenty of cues when it's time to orgasm that you won't notice if your going too fast. When it's time to stop simply make sure you aren't giving yourself any more pleasure at this point, hands off completely for only a few minutes and repeat the process over again, practice practice practice.

How long should I edge for?

A - Much like the 2nd question there isn't a set amount of time to edge for however that being said the longer you do edge the better the results will be. You might see people last for days/weeks even months! But that doesn't mean you have to, Edging can be pleasurable in short bursts too, I would recommend if you are just starting out try edging for an hour or 2 before having an orgasm. If you can last that long without struggling or cumming then you can start to push yourself more and potentially go all the way from minutes to days if you put in the effort required.

How do I last longer and edge over days?

A - In short, practice practice practice. Edging is much more of a mental game rather than a physical one in a lot of ways, you need to have that edging mindset, if you get to a point where your head is doing everything in its power to make you have an orgasm then you simply need more practice, no one can edge for days easily straight away, it requires skill, patience and determination. It requires you to say no to your orgasm after you finish a session, keep telling yourself that "if I stop now and edge again tomorrow I'll have a better orgasm!" Once you can get in that mindset then your on your way to having some seriously pleasurable orgasms.

How do I ride the edge?

A - Riding the edge is simple on paper but extremely difficult to pull off. It is simply getting to the edge and backing off just a fraction so you stay right on it without having an orgasm, it requires some serious skill and isn't something that most people can do for a long time, personally I struggle to ride the edge for more than a few minutes and I've been edging years at this point so if you try and accidentally cum don't give yourself a hard time, think of it as experience rather than failure.

What is the point of no return?

A - The point of no return is that point where your orgasm is inevitable and will happen but you haven't started cumming yet, think of it as the fast build up you feel just before you orgasm

Should I watch porn?

A - Again there is absolutely no right or wrong here, a lot of people do watch porn and a lot don't, it's totally up to your preference. Personally for me I don't watch porn while I edge, I enjoy looking at myself essentially becoming my own porn source, or I'll edge by closing my eyes and imagining all my wildest fantasies. However if that's not your style and your rather edge to hot girls and guys then absolutely go for it!

Is it/can it be harmful?

A - Yes if your being silly but no if your edging safely. There can be ways that you do harm yourself while edging like getting dehydrated or even the potential for death grip syndrome which is where you masturbate too hard, to fast and to long which can desensitised your intimate area. Luckily if your smart you can avoid all of this by simply drinking LOTS of water because you sweat and leak a lot during a session and just don't go mad with edging, a light grip, slow strokes and frequent breaks and you will be absolutely fine, in short edging is completely harmless if you do it right.

Will it improve my orgasms?

A - YESSSS 1000000% I can say orgasms after edging for a few days sometimes don't even seem real for me haha and if I'm being absolutely honest orgasms from sex along haven't come close to the intensity and power that edging orgasms have given me (hehe not saying I prefer sex to masturbation that's a different ball game!) but yeah give it a shot for a few hours or a few days and when you finally have that sweet relief wether it be accidentally or on purpose I promise you'll be blown away by the intensity, power, feeling, distance of it, this is only partly why we edge, the edge itself is incredibly pleasurable and fun however the real fun is the orgasm, the icing on the cake!

Will it help me last longer in bed?

A - in short I would say no however it does have its benefits when it comes to sex such as it will teach you excellent control of your own orgasm so you will potentially be able to stop in some positions and hold back your orgasm. But... sex is vastly different to masturbation, the sensations, feelings, sights, smells, tastes! Absolutely everything is different to when your on your own so I can't say for certain edging has improved my sexual stamina with someone but it has vastly increased it when I'm on my own. Of course some people will have a different view and will say that it has made them last longer in bed but for me personally it's a no because it's completely different to edging by yourself.

How can I produce more cum/precum or grool?

A - Unfortunately things like that are more genetics based, your body will be completely different and produce more or less cum/precum than the next person. There are of course little things that do help, again drinking lots and lots of water when you edge will increase the amount and the consistency. The longer you edge the more precum and cum you will produce. And I have heard you can get supplements to increase the amount however I have never had any experience with that so I can't say for sure if they do work or not.

What is gooning?

A - Gooning is incredibly hard to describe, it's a state of mind basically a state where you are completely hyper focused on the pleasure and nothing else matters around you, your in a trance and completely dominant over your pleasure even when you are right on the brink you know exactly when to stop, how to ride the edge, how to keep it up for ages and ages. Think of it like a trance that you put yourself in when your completely over the top horny and edged out your mind.

What is a ruined orgasm?

A - A ruined orgasm is the equivalent of a 2nd life when edging it's hard to explain but I'll try my best. Picture the scene, your edging and you accidentally push over that edge "oh no fuck that's my edge over I'm cumming!" Not necessarily you see a ruined orgasm isn't really an orgasm, it is where you stroke past the point of no return and stop all pleasure, take your hands off or toys out and let yourself cum without touching, it will feel like you didn't have an orgasm, strange but yes you actually didn't have a full orgasm you maybe only had 10% of one. What you will notice if you did it right is you will still have the same libido, same level of horniness, same throbbing boner or pulsing clit, you will be as horny as you were before you went over that point of no return. So that's why I say it's like a 2nd life when edging because you can get right back to where you were like you didn't even cum.

Should I edge with toys?

A - Absolutely! If you have them they can add an incredible amount of pleasure to something that is already absolutely amazing, they add a new dynamic to edging and pretty much force you to try new things and experiment with new techniques as the jump in pleasure will most likely make your normal edging techniques very difficult. Vibrators, cock rings, fleshlights, butt plugs, dildo's... the list is absolutely endless and you can edge with any toy if you put in the practice.

I am still struggling to not cum, what can I do?

A - firstly don't worry if you aren't quite getting the hang of it just yet we were all a beginner at one point! Keep practicing, go slower when you start to feel close, take your time with every touch and relax, breathe and chill out. Practice practice practice trust me you'll get there and it will pay off!

🟦 The pros/cons of edging

Pros!

ITS FUCKING FUN!

Let's get the first thing out the way, the main reason, ITS SOOOOO MUCH FUN! Not sure how many of you here are totally new to edging and have only masturbated "normally" for years but please fucking try this, the feelings and pleasure you get, it's totally unrivalled to any other pleasure you can give yourself solo.

It makes you're orgasms more powerful

Yes if you're looking for those leg shaking, moaning, lip biting orgasms every single time you cum then this is the place for you! Edging has made me cum well over my face to hit the wall behind me haha, I'm not saying that will happen with everyone because we are all different of course but god when I tell you I've had some orgasm from edging that were better than ones from sex I'm not lying, the more edging you do the better you're orgasm gets.

It feels amazingly satisfying

The satisfaction you get from that "perfect" edge is just simply beautiful, the feeling of "oh fuck I'm cumming" but then having it slowly fade down again from that peak is just bliss, if you get it perfect which is hard to to every single time you'll feel this pure wave of pleasure and satisfaction rush through you, every single edge just feels amazing, if you really get into it you won't want to cum!

It helps you with control

This is a big one! A lot of people have asked me "will this help me last longer" and I will always answer... no. Talking from experience after practicing edging for this many years then having sex I can say that no it certainly didn't help me last longer, what it DID do was allow me to have control over when I was close therefore I could stop in time, pull out and have a break or use my tongue/fingers before sliding back inside. So yes it helps a huge amount with controlling when you have an orgasm, it sadly won't make you a sex god haha but it might just help those accidents that happen in the bedroom sometimes 😅 (we've all been there 🤭)

It helps you explore

You might be surprised by this one however it's also a huge thing that helps a lot of people out, including myself. When you edge you're naturally in a horny state of mind a lot of the time, this sort of forced you to become almost more adventurous and willing to push past you're comfort zone and that's an amazing thing, you might try something with edging that you might've never even thought about like, sleeping naked, tasting you're precum, even checking out some porn you never knew about or you might buy you're first sex toy, hell in some cases edging has helped figure out you're entire sexual preferences and that's just amazing, being in tune with you're sexual side is a wonderful thing and I urge you to try and get there.

It helps you get to know you're body

This is an interesting one for sure, this may not be a benefit to everyone however for me this was a huge help, when I started edging seriously and learning it over the years I've been getting more and more body positive and confident just seeing myself edge, something about seeing, hearing even tasting yourself just makes you more comfortable in you're own skin, you tend to forget about the things you might not like about yourself and you concentrate more on the pleasure that you're able to give yourself, it's a funny one but really good to explore.

Its just really hot

Idk if you've been living under a rock but GOD have you seen how hot a wet edged cock or leaky pussy is, gees it gets me going, watching them throb and get wetter and wetter, the desperate little moans from pure desperation every single touch or edge, god just imagine all of us in a room edging together, if that doesn't make you bite you're lips you're not edged enough hehe

It can boost you're confidence

This is a big one! If you were anything like me growing up personally I really struggled being body confident, feeling sexy and all that but edging changed that for me a lot! When I started edging seeing my from different angles and developing this amazing skill to stop an orgasm from happening whenever I wanted I absolutely got a huge boost in confidence sexually I look at myself naked now and I'm more than happy with how I look and my confidence with a girl has drastically improved because of that. Obviously this is just my personal experience but i do really think edging has definitely played a part in me feeling way more confident and comfortable when doing anything remotely sexual.

It's a great stress reliever

Ah yes the best stress relief ever, fuck alcohol/drugs this is what you need, lay there, get naked, dim the lights, put on you're favourite porn or my personal favourite listen to some r/gonewildaudio and relax slowly stroking that cock up and down or fingering that pussy real slow just letting you're whole body relax into a state of pure bliss beats anything else, turn off all distractions and just enjoy yourself for an hour or so, honestly you won't want to stop.

It connects you with people

If I put a poll up right now for everyone here saying "have you had fun edging with others" I would be shocked if it was no hehe, edging brings us all into this horny state that is so relatable it's very easy to get along with others doing it too, I've made some amazing friends through edging that I would never have if I didn't edge. Of course you have to be respectful to everyone here and I'm not saying just go DM random people however if you are respectful and ask before doing anything that someone may find inappropriate then you should be good too go, please do also remember a no is a no, don't try and force anything just take it as it is. But yes edging is a great way to make horny friends hehe!

Sadly as amazing as edging is there are still some things you must take into consideration and be mindful of

Cons!

It can be addictive

Sadly this can happen easier than you might think, people will start edging and it'll feel that good that they don't want to stop and to a point that's ok. However! If edging starts getting in the way of you're personal day to day life then it's a problem and you should absolutely consider toning it down, edging is amazing fun but it's not worth it overtaking you're entire life, we all have priorities that should be complete first. A way to look at it that I use is I use edging as a reward at the end of the day, say I'm busy and I do everything, some people might reward themselves with a beer or glass of wine haha I'll do it by edging my cock at the end of the day. So if you don't want to get addicted, be sensible 😅

It can get frustrating if you cum

This one isn't really a con per say however we've all been there if you're new or just out of practice, no matter what you do you just can't seem to edge without having an orgasm. Firstly don't worry, we all get to that point sometimes, it's normal. Don't ever feel down or embarrassed by it when it happens, edging is hard, it takes practice and commitment and sometimes we just push too far but it's ok, pick yourself back up and try again, you'll get there in no time!

It can be time consuming

This is the biggest one out of everything, sadly there are only 24 hours in the day and that for the majority of people isn't enough to spend hours edging each time they want too, it's frustrating but we can't do anything about it, I personally enjoy edging at night when everything is quiet and calm, relaxing time but I understand that not everyone has that luxury so I would say just edge when you can, even if it's only 10 minutes it's still a blast and you can always have fun no matter the time.

🟪 Edging techniques for all the cock lovers

First let's get a few things out the way

There won't be any techniques here with toys since not everyone has access to them. It doesn't matter what you're working with, you can still do most of these no problem. Only thing you will need if you want to copy these is lube or albolene.

Basic Strokes!

You will all be familiar with this one, porn on or not, you're dominant hand round your shaft doing steady up and down movements to the edge, simple, easy but effective 😌

Two hands!

This one is fun, you'll want to get that cock lubed up first of all, then use one hand at the base of your shaft gripping it fairly tight, then with your other hand just grip above that, don't worry if you're not huge down there, that's why we lube up, so your sensitive head can slide freely in your hands. Now instead of stroking up and down twist both your hands in opposite directions as you move them up and down also, this gives so much more pleasure than just going up and down normally, this will make you edge very quickly 😉

Just the head

This technique also requires lube or if your lucky enough like me to precum like mad made sure you're dripping wet. So grip your cock at the base, use your hand as a makeshift cockring so you get that head all swollen and sensitive, then with your other hand start massaging your entire head with your fingers the same way you'd open a bottle hehe, be very gentle on your tip when you do this or any other technique that requires playing with your exposed glands, especially if your uncut you'll be incredibly sensitive up there 😮‍💨.

The frenulum massage

Definitely one of my favourites works better on uncut guys but it will still be very fun if you are circumcised. Grip your shaft at the base again like that makeshift cockring, really get that head sensitive, now roll you're foreskin back and lube it up GOOD, take two fingers and gently start rubbing that frenulum in little circles (you're frenulum can be found just where you're foreskin meets your shaft) this is effectively the male clit so treat it exactly how you would treat a sensitive clit on a girl, nice and gentle, very slow movements, just take you're time, relax and enjoy the feeling of your fingers sliding around it effortlessly bringing your to the brink 🤤

Rubbing the band

This is an interesting one, you'll need lube for this and it'll be more pleasurable for you if you are uncut. So pull back your foreskin and make an O with your thumb and index finger, lube it up and slowly bring it down to the point where you're head stops and shaft starts, this part is very sensitive, gently rub that band up and down or twist your hand in that position round that part of your cock, you can edge like this very easily if your properly aroused, make sure you're head is nice and wet though 😉

Thrusting upwards

This one is easy enough, you're basically using your hands as a makeshift fleshlight, you don't need lube for this but it's way better you can ether do the same position as the "Two hands" technique or you can grip both your hands together round your shaft in the same place. Now instead of what you normally do which is move your arms, leave them still and let your hips do the work, like your thrusting into someone, slow and steady or fast and hard, whatever you're preference this technique is a lot of fun ☺️

Squeeze and let go

This is a technique for when your right on the limit and feel like if you stroke anymore you'll cum hehe, it's as simple as it sounds, gently squeeze your shaft with one or two hands and very very slowly relax them, you'll feel your cock throb and pulse as you do it and you can actually edge like that depending on how close you are 🤭

Grinding.

Again a very simple but one of my favourite techniques, you can do it naked, fully clothed or even just in your boxers soaking that delicious precum in them. Just set a pillow under your cock and lay on your front, gently start thrusting your hips up and down into the pillow pushing your cock against the fabric, it's bliss, a little secret of mine is when I do it I listen to some gonewildaudio and just soak my pillow or boxers 🤤

Watching yourself.

This is an interesting one but one that most of you will hopefully enjoy, so pick any of the techniques here and position yourself in front of a mirror so you can see everything. Giving yourself another angle to look at and one that you probably haven't seen before much really is quite the turn on, it's something that helps you really get in tune with you're sexual side and does a huge number to boost your confidence and be body positive, give it a shot 🥰

Other positions

This one is simple enough too, I would bet all of you right now are most likely laying on your back stroking and that's probably what you normally do right, and hey that's absolutely fine haha it's the most. Comfortable position but have you ever tried any other ones, sitting down, on your knees, even on all fours or fucking upside down lol, what I'm saying is just try something new every so often because It can be a lot of fun 🥰

Fast and slow

This is a lot of fun but can be quite challenging, it's very simple, choose your favourite technique to edge, then when you are edging do one edge super fast getting to the brink as fast as you can, then on you're next edge go super slow, like teasing yourself beyond belief all the way to the edge. This is so much fun and definitely makes you super desperate on those slow edges 😅

Anal edges

Now this of course won't be for everyone but for those who are interested in exploring back there one of the best ways to start is with a finger, just lube it up and have a little play to find that prostate and gently press it while you stroke with your other hand, it's really pleasurable, it'll make you leak like mad if you manage to hit that p spot. Just be gentle if you're new to it and relax your ass muscles if you can.

JOI edging

As much as it is super fun to be physically edged by someone in real life or online it's often quite difficult to find someone willing to be that dominant for the whole time and that's where JOI's or (jerk off instructions) come in, there are a number of videos just like that for edging where you can completely give up control to the hot girl or guy talking too you and most of them can be a lot of fun and rather difficult to complete if you like a challenge. If you aren't much of a porn watcher however there are also games like fapintructor or jrk-it that you can set the exact perimeters for you're edging session and have fun while trying your best to be a good boy or girl 🤤

Slow and sensual edging

This one is just super fun and incredibly relaxing, imagine an edging session which you prepare for, you clean yourself up good, get in you're comfiest spot, you're lube or toys beside you, hell even dim the lights and put on some soft music if you want haha but the basic thing here is the set up will turn you on so fucking much, every thought about what your getting ready for just being pure pleasure and so relaxing. When you're finally ready start of slow maybe even keep your boxers on for waaaay longer than you normally would just teasing yourself before finally allowing that throbbing wet cock to spring free, start off slow and stay slow, this technique isn't about how often you edge, it's about going slow enough to prolong every single little bit of pleasure you're getting, you might not even have time to edge even more than a few times with this technique if you have the control hehe. Definitely would recommend it though it's a lot of fun 🤤

Thanks for reading!

Please do check out part 1 if you haven't done so already for all the beginners guides and edging with sex toys, have fun and don't cum!