Hello everyone!

I'm a submissive girl (29) looking for a genuine friendly connection with a dominant person.

Dieting TW: I want to lose a few extra kilos for my birthday in January to feel better and healthier. Now I often fill boredom or any emotional void with food (the most reliable source of happiness). I want to replace some desserts with nice communication and maybe feeling horny too. That's how I lost weight in the past.

Looking for someone experienced and patient to dominate me online. Maybe you are the one to guide me as I find my way to sort my life out.

Kink-wise I have D/s, spanking and anal cravings.

I have been on/off the submission scene. Self-spanking since 2019. I used to hang out on Spanking Needs, but the site is no longer active.

I had long-term connections with Doms in the past. Last one ended in May. Anxiety got in the way, and I stopped all things discipline.

I'm in Europe, and my Doms were from all over the world, Australia and the States included. For time zone convenience, I prefer Doms from Europe.

I have never had a Domme but would be open to the experience.

To answer some of the burning questions:

• Yes, online discipline works for me. It's all about submitting mentally first. It is a real need of mine, I can't deny it.
• Yes, self-spanking is not as effective as being spanked by someone else (so I've been told). At the moment, it's the only safe option to explore my kink. I had some tough experiences, so my trust issues are pretty bad. Due to that, no pics/videos. Definitely not until we build trust and you are willing to share yours too.
• Orgasm control might be effective, denial didn't work too well for me. With my fairly high libido, denial just made me miserable. Not in a fun way.
• I own a variety of implement and toys. I even purchased two anal hooks but didn't get a chance to train long enough to use them.
• I tried figging too.

My hard limits:

• public play/nudity, being plugged outside, stuff like that
• breast hitting, torture
• extreme stretching/fisting
• blood, scat, watersports
• bruises, permanent/long-term damage (I like spankings ending with my butt bright red, but soon looking back to normal, just feeling toasty)

Right now, I'm on my healing and self-improvement journey. I do yoga daily, eat healthier, and follow an adequate bedtime routine. I do want to find a firm guiding hand to help me on this path.

In the past, some spanking therapy along with anal discipline helped me reduce anxiety and improve well-being overall.

If you are interested in chatting, please reach out. I look forward to meeting nice people and learning with you!

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