Please read all of this if you want to message me! ☺️

• Please tell me what post of mine caught your attention and why, or tell me how did you find my profile.

• If you read my pinned post you can learn a lot about me! It’s three years old but I just re-read it and it pretty much holds up :) my life has changed of course but we can always talk about it.

• I made this profile to talk with and meet women. But if you’re a guy and want to talk, I’m still down! I can give advice, chat about music, I’ll listen to you if you need a friend as well! I’ve had great conversations with guys before, but know that I’m straight.

• Tell me your age and gender, and if you feel comfortable where are you from too! please be 21 Ideally be single as well.

• PLEASE be conversational. I’m a talker, but if you want me to always lead the conversation it’s just not gonna work. You have to put some effort in your messages for a conversation to work out. It goes both ways.

• I’m a real person behind this profile, it’s almost like a journal/confessionary. Please be respectful, I am respectful. But if you come to insult me or catfish me (I can tell), I’m just gonna stop replying or even block you. If you think you don’t meet my criteria but still wanna talk, shoot your shot! Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not, I’m sick of that, I’m very transparent in here and I expect the same, I like real people. I have feelings too!

• If you see a pic of me, it’s really me. Don’t feel pressured to send a pic back (especially if you’re gonna send one of someone who’s clearly not you 🙄), although I appreciate it, I understand the internet is scary and I respect that, many of us have been doxxed before and that sucks; and if you don’t find me attractive that’s ok! Although I find myself attractive, we’re not everyone’s cup of tea and I can live with that. Be mature, say what you think, don’t ghost. I can take a “I’m not attracted to you”.

• If we hit it off I’d prefer we chat somewhere else. Reddit chat is very buggy and I have a lot of chats through the years so it’s very annoying. WhatsApp, discord, telegram, even Snapchat works for me. And if you really give me good vibes I’ll even share my Instagram, but that’s unlikely haha.

Finally. If you read all of this and still think of messaging me: can’t wait to hear from you!

As always: my best wishes to you!

J.