This typically applies to people I am just meeting for the first time or am just getting to know, it’s a different case when we’ve established a fwb relationships and the respect is there. Typically if I know you respect me, and ideally we are pretty friendly or friends already… I’m a lot more open. I’ve gotten to the point where I can’t suffer foolish and self centered behavior anymore, it becomes such a turn off that I won’t want to meet. I know a lot of you are excited interacting with a woman so open willing to do so many cool things with you, but you need to think a little bit more before you speak.

I.e: immediately asking for threesomes and group sex anal and crazy rough stuff, trying to take domming too far without discussing boundaries first, other self serving behaviors. The point is that it’s not wrong to ask to do other things, but if we don’t have that respect and rapport there enough, it feels like someone is just wanting to use me to fulfill their fantasies and that’s not really the vibe. If anything, it’s the other way around, kink wise. I do like to play with domming and objectification obviously, but overall I understand that we need to also see each other as humans worth respect.