45m, i’m Canadian so already scoring high on the ‘quality men’ list. Tall, dadbod and taking care of myself, clean kept and bearded with salt and pepper chest hair you want to run your finger nails through. Not only do I have a great father figure i’m married and involved happy dad of 3, a well rounded, university educated, left leaning, libra, INFP, nurse. I like nerdy stuff and outdoorsy things. I love to dance, go to live music shows and festivals and travel. Basic bitch stuff. I have goals and hobbies but I would like you to be my general focus for all my free time and while i’m busy too.

I’m looking for a secret relationship with someone who I value as a friend and turns me on constantly with their wit, intelligence, compassion and selfies. I work shift so flexibility is a must but daily regular contact is the goal. Feelings, sparks, butterflies are all welcome and encouraged experiences.

I appreciate confident women who know what they want. I know my value and I don’t want to waste anyones time.

Kinks are a plus, my version of spice isn’t more vanilla. Your picture gets mine.

EST timezine or close is a requirement.