Well we broke up this past week and she went back to her husband after quitting her job to take care of the hellion. While i don't wish her anything bad I'm almost certain the reconciliation is going to fail. The odds are not in her favor ( if anyone knows them please comment) but While she is just in misery. I'm on a journey to find myself again I'm getting back in the gym and going to jujitsu. I have plans to go and see my son after the first of the year. I plan on doing a cross country motorcycle trip and going to bike week .I was excepted in to law school. I want to fall in love with life again. But one thing is for absolutely sure she will be in misery and when she calls to day she made a mistake well I wo t be there. While I still care for her now it will not be the case in 6 months.