I see so many posts saying "how do I convince my wife to fuck other men"....... Time. Time is the answer. I am by no means saying that I know how women think, that's just asking to be berated on the internet, but one thing I am sure that men and women can agree on is that women are far more mentally involved than men. They need the time to process things differently to men, at least that's what I have found.

This is not to say that every woman will be the same. Let me repeat....there is no doubt that no means no. If your wife or girlfriend isn't into it, suck it up and accept it. If you cannot accept it, you are a dick that doesn't deserve to be in a relationship to begin with.

Anyway!

Once upon a time......

I told my wife about the fantasy probably 12 years ago. She was really taken aback and rejected the idea immediately. I left it at that for a few years and then dropped into conversation that I had a dream (genuinely did dream about it) about her with other guys and how I couldn't get it out of my head. She was a little more receptive to the idea but had huge reservations.

She was extremely self conscious of her body, her age, would anyone find her attractive etc. but most of all she was worried that I was saying this so that I had 'ammunition' to then go out and have sex with other women. This is obviously not the case but it took some convincing her that her's would be the ONLY persons sexual freedom. This was over the course of years by the way, never ever pressure someone, it will only make your relationship suffer.

In that time I set up an Instagram account dedicated to her feet and the feedback was insane, she loved it! The comments, the likes, the boost of confidence did wonders for her. She slowly opened up a little more and then one day she told me (as we were about to get coffee) that she wanted to fuck another guy.

In the weeks that followed she went out with one of her friends and ended up making out with a guy in a pub, told me and when I got incredibly horny about it and didn't freak out, it dawned on her that I really, really didn't want to be with another woman. Fast forward another 6 months or so and she went on her first date and couldn't believe the connection between us and just how much I enjoyed her pussy the day after.

That was almost a year ago and since then she has met with 5 different guys. Our marriage has been stronger, she gets to have her slutty nights away when she just wants a good fucking (her words, not mine), our sex life has increased and is more exploratory and overall as a couple, we are in a better place.

TLDR: do not pressure her, give her time to take in things and enable HER to make the decisions with next steps, do not be pissed off if she still says no.