This isn't your typical R4R post, so bear with me and read on.

I'm a very happily married man to a wonderful woman. She's my best friend and biggest supporter. We began exploring ENM/CNM together recently and it's been fantastic. Our communication has never been better, even with the expected and unexpected hiccups along the way.

One of my things is that I don't have anyone in my regular life to talk to about this, none of my friends, family or coworkers know. She's got one or two friends who are way kinkier than she is and they have no problem discussing these topics.

I'd like to have a guy that can be a genuine friend, can talk to openly about sex, non-monogamy, fantasies, etc...and maybe, if the vibe is there, explore some of them. I'd like to find a guy nearby, close to my age, ideally in a similar position who is cool to just hang out and have a beer, watch a WWII documentary - OR - hang out, have a beer, watch some porn and be free to whip our dicks out.

To be clear, I don't identify as gay or bi at all. Even if we're talking dicks out, I'm not looking for kissing or anything romantic in any way. We can discuss that more specifically if you'd like, but the main focus is a chill buddy to hang out with and just be. No judgment, no drama, no everyday life bullshit. I'm cool if you're gay, bi, straight, trans, NB, whatever your best life looks like, just be easy.

I'm 41, married, 5'9" 185lbs and framed in your typical furry dad bod, if that matters to you. If we're getting physical I would prefer someone similarly HWP and with good hygiene of course. I'm very non-judgmental in a lot of things, but I will draw the line for the MAGA crowd, please and thank you.

Hope you made it this far, hope that makes sense. Tell me what the first car you owned and your favorite car is in your opening message.